Whenever I buy something like new shoes or a purse, or even get my hair done I get asked that by a certain co-worker, I usually just say I paid what it cost, or why do you need to know that? I don't want to be rude or anything I just do not like discussing money or what I spend.
2006-08-11 03:27:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would answer: Are you paying for it? Thank you! I'll bring the receipt tomorrow.
2006-08-11 07:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by morganna_f 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Enough" is a perfectly acceptable answer, as is "I could afford it."
If this co-worker doesn't get the hint to stop asking, truthfully, I don't think you are out of line to say, calmly and politely, "I'm sorry, it's just that I'm really not comfortable discussing money." Hopefully, THAT will get the message across and prevent any future questions.
2006-08-11 13:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by sylvia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be vague, but polite, and say something like 'oh I got a really good deal' or 'I spent a little more than I planned, but it was worth it.' If the coworkder persists, calmly state that you would prefer not to discuss such things but you appreciate the compliment on your terrific style.
2006-08-11 12:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by cintishoegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to live In a loft in downtown St Louis - I was on the loft tour every season and invariably someone would ask my rent. I would always smile and say I get a good deal. If they asked a second time I would say, " All of the lofts go for different prices depending on amenities and location, check with our management for this buildings pricing." SOMETIMES a person would really push it and say "Well how much does this space go for?" and then I would say, you really don't take hints well do you?
2006-08-11 11:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them that you either paid a king's ransom for it or that it was the bargain of a lifetime and walk away laughing because it should take them a while to figure out that you are politely saying that it is none of their business.
2006-08-11 11:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some want to know so that they can purchase it and some just want to know because they are nosey. Just tell them you got a bargain and knock about 5 to 10 dollars off what you really paid. Some people are just nosey and need to know everyone elses business.
2006-08-11 11:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "It was a good value for the money," or "I was satisfied for the price."
If they keep pestering you, give the name of the store and say, "I'm sure you'll find something you like in your price range."
They are rude for asking the question in the first place, so you don't have to answer it directly.
2006-08-11 11:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say that I can't remember. That way it doesn't sound like I'm refusing to answer them, but if they hear me say it enough they get the idea or think I'm ditzy--and I don't care either impression is fine with me.
2006-08-11 10:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no polite answer for that. You just try to change the subject, or answer with evasives like those you suggest.
2006-08-11 12:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say:"Oh, I appreciate your compliment, but I really don't feel like losing my job by discussing pay scales. Do you?"
2006-08-11 12:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋