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i met this guy a few weeks back in a club. well actually, weve known each other for years but havent really spoke much. anyway, we seemed to hit it off that night, and he said to his mates that he thinks im hot but i've not heard anything from him. Ive been warned that he's abit of a player, but i was wondering if there are any tips anyone can give me to make him fall for me?!

2006-08-11 03:25:20 · 43 answers · asked by Kittie 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

43 answers

Wear a short skirt with no knickers. That should give him the message.

2006-08-11 03:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Most guys love the chase. If you show to much interest we think your clingy, not enough, we think we don't have a chance. Think about what makes you like a guy, when first getting to know each other, if he paid too much attention, are you put off by that? Men and women aren't as different as book sellers would like you to believe. This guy may be a player. Most of the time, guys who are players do go only for sure things, not wasting time with girls of substance that they would have to invest time with in order to get what they are looking for. When they grow up, and realize its time to settle down, they are usually disappointed to find that all the marriage material girls are gone. No one ever said we were the smartest sex. I suggest widening your dating pool to meet more people and find better guys. If he is to fall for you, your timing has to be the same as his. Be subtle, a little flitrtatius. stroke his ego alittle but stay a little distant, he will chase you.

2006-08-11 03:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by venicerp 1 · 0 0

If he is a player, the only thing he will fall for is a one night stand, maybe 2 or 3 nights.
If its really good he might keep you around for an occassional booty call, but that will probably make it worse for you.
Blow him off. People always want what they cant have. Just be prepared for the day if he does get you that he might not want it anymore.
Good luck

2006-08-11 03:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by bigbadb 3 · 0 0

well, if you have his number I would say give him a call. Talk to him about what his buddies said to you. Make sure though you understand his player. Keep a eye on him to make sure he isn't just playing you to make you fall for him. Look very hot next time you see him. And show him what he could have. Trust him though. Not having trust in someone can make them fall more and more out of feelings with you..

2006-08-11 03:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he's a player, he won't "fall" for you - he will use you and then throw you away. He'll do this because, to him, women are not people with feelings, they are simply toys to be played with for his own ammusement.

If that's what you want, then good luck. I think all you need to do is express interest and he will know that he's got a fish on the line. If you hope for something more serious, then forget that guy.

2006-08-11 03:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by jack b 3 · 0 0

To make a guy fall for you, you must make him think of you. How? Plenty of ways but it depends on what type of guy he is. I am afraid i can't say is there any definite way but sometimes the most effetive way is the easiest way. Try to be his close friend first.
If you can appear in his mind when he is not seeing you, your chances are high. If you are successful, congratulations because you have completed the first stage of making a guy fall for you. If i am right...

2006-08-11 03:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by maniacserver 2 · 0 0

babe just be yourself and if he cant see it then your better off . As for him being a player , that says it all hes not worth it , u should get dressed tonight and go out with the girls and get down and show him what hes missing out on . Find someone better .oh yeah other thing just be yourself dont change for no one ,,, always remember that ;) good luck babe

2006-08-11 03:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you've been warned... keep it in mind!

I met someone similar to one you described. From past experience, I learned to always be yourself and not the one who you think he wants. Why? Because then when you finally DO have him (after 3 years of trying, lol) you begin to get tired of yourself...

2006-08-11 03:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by swtxgoodbai 2 · 0 0

when we guys say we think a girl is hot it means nothing to us, but to the girl a seed has been planted in her mind and the idea keeps growing, you are living proof of this tactic!!!
Do nothing and let him make the next move. The only indication you have is his pals saying he likes you, not a reliable source.

2006-08-11 03:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0 0

according to you he has already "fallen for you" so if youve got this guys number, give him a call! be forward with him, ask him out show him what he could have then avoid him like the plague trust me he will seriously fall for you if you play with his mind! p.s (when i say show him what he could have that doesnt mean sleep with him) do exactly as i say and you will have him eating out the palm of your hand, trust me im a guy and i know what it is like!! hope ive helped!

2006-08-11 03:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by chipz and gravy 2 · 0 0

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