Well i met this guy at the lake i go to. He and i hung out for awhile then he gave me his number. well we talked a lil bit. and the he called his cuz which lives where i use to. His cuz called my cell phone and was like (the guys name) doesn't like u and he thinks ur annoying and leave him alone. soo im embaressed, confused and wanna kno what i did wrong or mainly what should i do?
2006-08-11 03:24:11 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
screw with that guy honey, find someone else who they think that you are fun and loving women. it's only a guy, it's not like end of world.
just be patient, and ask him in the face, "do you think that I'm annoying?", if yes, ask him "why?"
if he doesn't like you, just tell him to be true to you, not talking it with other people that you are annoying. that guy really sucks and wimp, because he cannot tell his felling about you in your face.
but, however, ask him first, sometimes what you heard not always true, maybe someone feel envy with you and say that guy talk to everyone that you annoying.
but if he does tell that to everybody, tell him "I'M A FUN AND LOVING WOMEN, BUT SORRY HONEY IT'S NOT FOR YOU"
please if you can, get me the news of what happen because I'm curios.
Rgrds
Jd
2006-08-11 03:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by catlovers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two options. Forget about him altogether because he's a loser for not letting you down in person. He's an even bigger loser for having his cousin call you on the cell phone.
If you want to get to the bottom of it for some closure - give the guy a call to meet somewhere for coffee or lunch (don't make it a dinner because that's too personable..) If he stands you up he's an even bigger jerk - Lose him entirely. If he shows up get everything out in the open and see if there's something you're doing to make him believe you are annoying or if the cousin is just making trouble.
2006-08-11 03:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you probably did not communicate very well because you cannot write proper English. Next, this is all teenage crap and it is just the way it is. Back off, don't bother him and if wants to call you then he will. Stop being all confused and doing what you are doing......no one wants to be a laughing stock or make a fool out of themselves.
2006-08-11 03:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Did you ever give this guy a chance to pursue YOU! Guys enjoy the thrill of the "chase." You have to hold out sometimes to get a man's attention. You probably just called him a little too much. Fall back and see what happens.
2006-08-11 03:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call him back and say 'You know what if he thinks im so annyoing why cant he just call me hiself and until then i will keep calling until he answers the phone and tells me himself, cuz if he dosnt then he should know that theres nothing more annyoing then a guy telling one of his friends to call the girl because he is to scared and wont be a man.
2006-08-11 03:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell everyone that the only reason he thinks your annoying is cause he told you some really embarrassing things about himself and now he wants people to think badly about you! When they press you for what... Say, Im more mature than to go around telling everyones secrets. Good luck
2006-08-11 03:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all be sure if that story is true, if the guy really said that! It can be an intrigue from the other person! So better to find out for yourself! If you annoy him, even if he disguises, you will find a way to realise it.
If it's true, then find someone else!
2006-08-11 03:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Lisistrata 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he really doesn't like you and find you annoying. If this is the case, then talk to him about that...tell him to be honest. If he admits it, please do yourself a favour and move on.
Another thing is that maybe his cousin likes you and doesn't want you to get with [guys name here], and is just trying to get you not to like him (I've been in that situation a few years back). Think about it for a while, and choose your path.
2006-08-11 03:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by TriNStylZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if a guy cant tell you to your face that he doesnt want to get with you becuase of this reason or the other, then he isnt worth your attention. of course, there is always the possibility that this cuz wants you for himself in which case he isnt worth your attention either. call the guy and try to get the truth out of him. remember, there's lots of great guys out there and don't beat up your head about it if one doesnt go the way you want. good luck!!!
2006-08-11 03:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sound like jerks, especially his cuz. The cuz could be jealous or just an idiot, so hang back and see what unfolds. Don't be too clingy with the guy and take your lead from him.
2006-08-11 03:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋