i met this guy a few weeks back in a club. well actually, weve known each other for years but havent really spoke much. anyway, we seemed to hit it off that night, and he said to his mates that he thinks im hot but i've not heard anything from him. Ive been warned that he's abit of a player, but i was wondering if there are any tips anyone can give me to make him want me?!
2006-08-11 03:23:14 · 33 answers · asked by Kittie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you want to catch a player that's your business but i'd recommend you play very hard to get
2006-08-11 03:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by minerva 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Beauty is not essential. Study hard and finish college or university degree with honor of distinction. Get a high paying job. Buy a house and lot (fully furnish) in an exclusive village. Drive a Rolls Royce or Buggati. Wear very expensive diamonds jewelry and presto, men will like you, v e r y m u c h!!!
2006-08-11 03:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sam X9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might unload him asap. If he likes yet another female and she or he him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? genuine love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, that is committed and annoying artwork. you are able to see this as a crimson flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you are able to no longer additionally be pondering a severe relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have relaxing, do no longer substitute into overly invested in this, WHAT? you won't be able to flirt? circulate on, the writing is on the wall and it spells concern. Do your self a prefer and decrease the guy loose, no count if it extremely is destined to be, it is going to run that is direction and he would be back. yet why you will possibly take him back purely you are able to answer.
2016-11-04 08:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is a player~ If he wanted you - you would of heard something from him. Guys have a tendency to say stuff to there hommies while being in the mist of things. And not all guys are dogs although they got a bad rep- u know~ He might not want to just run through you like he does all the other chicks this is why he is staying away~ But if he has a rep of running wild then why you want him? Maybe you just want to run through him, if this is so then this is easy~ just tell shorty, you trying to see him. U feel me. and its not to play games or watch TV~ STRAP UP- PLAY IT SAFE~!!
2006-08-11 03:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy would love a girl that just tryed to do thesse things. Nothing is more attractive than a girl that agrees with these statements.
Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
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IT MAKES US FEEL SO SECURE TO KNOW THAT OUR GIRLFRIEND ISNT OFF FLIRTING WITH GUYS WE'VE NEVER HEARD OF!!
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We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning.
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Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
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Yeah, you can quote me.
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Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Take Advantage of the mood im in.
LET US PAY FOR YOU!
DON'T "FEEL BAD"
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say "thank you."
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Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
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You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up
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don't flirt with guys when were not with you.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with YOU.
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Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
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Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hott Morris Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
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Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful"
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey
handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
on the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; )
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Girls, I cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATIO... ***, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes.
Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel.
Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...
....AND ACTUALLY MEAN IT!
Give the nice guys a chance
2006-08-11 03:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by ms14bball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to go into his 'black book' as another conquest? If you do, then dress as a '****' and come onto him hard the next time you meet in a club.
My advice is to stay away from him... Despite what some ladies may say, there are still some decent guys out there... patience is a virtue.
2006-08-11 03:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by crm200666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its true that guys like a challenge. Thats why they love games like football and playing on their X-box! If they see you as a challenge they'll want you as much as their favourite football team.
When you see him again do not approach him, make eye contact and if he comes over be friendly, smiley and cool.
Be slightly flirty but dont throw yourself at him or tell him too much about yourself. Make him find you 'mysterious'.
When he phones or texts you, dont answer straight away! Leave it a couple of hours (you want him to think youve got a busy life and that he'll feel honoured if you make him a part of it).
I know its like playing games, but if he wants you, he WILL play!
Keep him interested!
Good luck gal!
2006-08-11 03:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth be told, u cant MAKE anybody want u, period. U can get him to use u, if that is all you want, because that is all he is going to do if he only thinks of u as bein "hot". And if u already know he has a slight reputation for bein a player, do u really want to set urself up for what could be a major letdown?
2006-08-11 03:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by scorpioangel22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, if he is a player, than it won't be hard to make him want you. but it will be even easier for him to drop you after he gets what he wants. he probably has a lot of girls he is playing which may be why he doesn't seem to have a lot of time for you. if he is a player, you should probably try and find another guy that is going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
2006-08-11 03:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you want a player to want you...yeah sure its nice to think he finds you attractive but you sound like hes already playing you...just by asking this on here hes playing you...making you think hes the best thing since sliced bread....when im afraid to say he isnt and probably never will be......he will most likely like you..if you turn your nose up at him, tell him you couldve had me but your a player so go find an easier girl.and perhaps add that your awesome at oral but only nice guys get that, smile and then walkaway!..........if i was you i would not even consider him...youll get hurt like if you goto bed with him hell probably not ring you and then ignore you....upto you tho......good luck
2006-08-11 03:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by sadie 69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him love, he's obviously not really interested.
Maybe if all you wanted was a casual relationship you'd be OK, but anything more than that and he'd be off like a shot.
Move on and find someone else.
2006-08-11 03:48:00 · answer #11 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋