ok i dont get it why are yall so jealous and protective? my gf get's so mad when i tlk to a girl other than her for longer tha an hour. like even if i go to visit my ex gf without her she gets so mad i mean it's not like we are going to kiss or anything.
2006-08-11 02:45:02 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its still under research not the jealous or possessive part but on the whole a girl as entity is worked upon
2006-08-11 02:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by godfather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a little thing called respect.I am a male and i wouldn't even do those things to my G/F as I love and respect her to much to even think of it.As for visiting an ex it is never a good idea to do that on your own as this can make the relationship look like a joke and the girl would feel like she is being used.A lot of guy's are in the same situation when their G/F talks to an ex or speaks to guys for over and hour and the guy then feels like he wants to punch out any guy that even looks at her.so i would suggest that you take a long hard look at yourself and ask yourself if you would be the same if the roles were reversed.
2006-08-11 02:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably feeling insecure because you choose to talk to other woman on the phone for over and hour and then you are visiting your ex girlfriend as well. It sounds like you don't take your relationship with her seriously. All of that energy you are putting into these other women should be focusing on her because that behavior is very disrespectful. Just remember, what goes arounds comes around.
2006-08-11 02:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're girlfriend is like this because your attention is not focused on her and she has a right to feel like that. You may not even think about kissing your ex, but you have no idea what she is thinking and neither does our girlfriend. Your girlfriend has a right as a part of your life to want everything inside you to be for her only. If you can't understand that other women should not be a part of your life like that, then maybe you really aren't ready for a girlfriend.
2006-08-11 02:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it's this simple first of all not all women are like the in fact chances are she does most of the things she does out of frustration because its the only Way she can seem to get your attention to let you know that you are paying more attention to other woman and not enough of the right attention to her and as far as going to see your ex what is she supposed to think the message she may be getting is that she is not enough woman for you if you want a relationship woman then lay off the other women and focus on her i bet you see a change in her reactions but be careful and respectful of her feelings so that you don't smother her or become possessive yourself
2006-08-11 03:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your EX why in the hell do u think she wouldn't have a problem with it. Maybe she is really happy with who she has a boyfriend and does not want to share!! And not all girls are this way idiot!
I just read your previous questions and ur the same idiot that keeps asking why ur girlfriend get upset becuase u let girls sit on ur lap!! U have no respect for girls and I bet you don't even have a girlfriend. Get a life and stop asking such stupid questions!
2006-08-11 02:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is simply disrespectful to go to an ex's house.
And not ALL girls are that way. I'm probably the least jealous person alive. All I ask for is respect. Simple.
2006-08-11 02:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel her pain sweetheart. Why do you still have contact with your ex? How would you feel if your g/f went to her ex's house to visit for an hour?? What would you be thinking?? If you want a relationship with this girl I suggest you smarten up and respect her feelings.
2006-08-11 02:49:15 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect! If shes an ex why would you be hanging out anyway? There's a reason you broke up in the first place and your never gonna move on unless you "move on" and stop that stuff. Stop trying to be a player and show this girl some respect instead of dissing her here on yahoo. ***.
2006-08-11 03:08:15 · answer #9 · answered by john k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We do that b/c we want to make sure our bf's won't cheat on us and going to see your ex has got to stop b/c she might still want u no matter if she has a bf or not. And don't get us jealous we hate when guys play those games with us.
2006-08-11 02:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋