My mother and I haven't spoken to each other since I moved out in May of this year. She kicked me out because the judge decided she should pay me child support money. She doesn't understand that I did not take her to court for the money but the judge did. Since that day we haven't talked.I don't want to hold a grudge on her for any longer. I really miss not having any family to talk to. Should I applologize for my actions or should she be applogizing for her actions.
2006-08-11 02:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by whytefcuker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
AWWWW.... Sweets: A mother and child relationship should be amazing. And this battle im sure brings sadness into your life that you shouldnt have to deal with. I say talk to her, DONT apologize tho for something that you did not do. See what she says, but try VERY hard to work things out. My mother and I were very close and she died in 01. I wouldnt give up a single second of my life with her for anything. We were best friends. It makes me VERY sad when I see mothers and daughters not getting along. Good luck.
2006-08-11 02:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should Call Her To Meet For A Conversation And Tell Her
That You Didn't Cause That To Happen, And Tell Her It Was
The Judge Not You Who Called Her To Court & Apolgze For Not
Explaning It Her Early.Tell Her You Cant Keep A Little Thing Like
This Destory The Relationship You Share With Your Mother.
2006-08-11 09:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! If you think you have something to apologize for, then make the first move. You don't have to wait for you mom to say sorry to you. She's just really upset. You're her child and deep inside her, she loves you. Go ahead and show her that you don't mean her any harm. If she doesn't respond to your goodness, don't feel bad. A hurt feeling is not always easily soothed. Sometimes, it takes time. But do your part. Do what you think is good. Hope things work out between you and your mom; the sooner the better. Good luck!
2006-08-11 09:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not following the child support thing, BUT as for you and your mother not speaking, it is not good. My mom and i had a huge fight last august and didnt speak for a while and it was too much on me. I am not a huge fan of apologizing, so unless you feel you were wrong, then dont. Maybe just call her and ask to talk. tell her how you feel. you dont need to apologize unless you were wrong. and dont expect her to apologize either!
2006-08-11 09:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We need more info... why is she paying you child support? Why was a judge involved in your relationship in the first place? Sounds like there is more to this story.
2006-08-11 09:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should write her and tell her that you miss her and miss talking to her and want to see if there is anything you can do to repair the relationship. If you did something that was wrong you should apologize and ask for forgiveness. I sure she would love to hear these words from you.
2006-08-11 09:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry who is to blame, my mum died in march this year, I would do anything just to hear her voice, or even feel her presence near me right now, do what you can to resolve this, my mother and I did have problems, but when they are no longer with you all that crap does not matter any more. good luck.
2006-08-11 09:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Little miss naughty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should and your mother needs to also i just went through the same thing but it was with my dad and things were complicated for about a year before we talked, but yea you both should apologize and offer to take your mom out for dinner or by her flowers to show her how much u love her and to say your sorry
2006-08-11 10:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be sorry acting like a child. sweetie love her before you lose her. she is everything in the world talk to her let her know what happen but if you miss her i would still call and be nice to her kindness to someone who is hateful to you hurts them.
2006-08-11 09:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wont talk to you, I suggest telling her that exact paragraph in a letter. Then after you know she has had time to read it and take it in, call her
2006-08-11 09:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by Hannah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋