I'm 24, I've never cheated on anyone, but all my EXs have cheated on me. Everytime I've been on a relationship, I've gotten opportunities to have sex with someone more attractive than the person I'm with, I've never have, but my EXs have.
On my next relationship, should I cheat before I get cheated on, and then just say "it was a mistake".
2006-08-11 02:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by Document Guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm gonna go with no on that one. Clearly if you haven't cheated by now, you have some good morals and values and feel that cheating on someone is wrong.
I am sure it must hurt to have people you care about cheating on you, but hurting someone else won't make that pain go away.
If you are hoping to have a meaningful relationship with the next person you date, why would you want to throw that away by cheating???
Good luck with your next relationship!
2006-08-11 02:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't become a cheater. I totally understand what you mean though. You get to a point where you wonder why you always get dumped on. Why people cant treat you the way you treat them. Why should you be the one doing the right thing. You know why ? Because that's who you are. That who I am too. Dont get me wrong, sometimes I get into moods where I pray I can become the type of person who doesn't care about someones feelings. That I can just lie and cheat right to their face and not care if they found out and got hurt. But that's not me. Do you want to be the cause of that pain you feel when you get cheated on ?
2006-08-11 02:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please don´t. There are very few nice guys out there who are faithful. How did you feel when you were cheated on? Probably not that great...it was probably a blow to your ego. What if in this next relationship your girlfriend isn´t a cheater and you really break her heart? There ARE girls out there who ARE worthy of you and who ARE faithful (I would never cheat). You just have´t found the right girl yet. If you want to cheat then don´t be in a relationship. You sound like a really nice guy, and please, don´t change. I know it sounds so cliche but you WILL find the right girl who is faithful and who would NEVER cheat. Just hang in there, and whenever you feel tempted into cheating just remember what I´m telling you.
"Nice guys don´t finish last, they last to the finish"
2006-08-11 02:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been where u are and I'm only 16. I cheated on my bf but he didn't cheat on me at least thats what I believe. DO NOT sink down to there level I never cheated on anyone before but I did then and I have no regrets about it but I still think u shouldn't do it. I couldn't live with the guilt anymore so I told my bf and we broke up it was for the best I fooled myself into liking him and it was really bad.
2006-08-11 02:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that what you want to be? Is that what you are? Get my drift? People stumble and fall and have affairs. Does that make them a cheater? No, it means that they have cheated. They and their partner suffer, sometimes get through it, sometimes not. Either way I'm sure they didn't pre-plan it like a vacation.
What you are suggesting is a lifestyle. Planning to cheat on the front end. That would be something that I think you would loose sleep over and regret. Even though it's no guarantee you won't stumble and fall and cheat, I hope you choose not to be a cheater.
2006-08-11 02:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never good. Just think of it this way, what if the next relationship you have is with the one you truly love and who truly loves you and if you cheat then she may leave you and then you would have missed on the best thing that has ever happened to you.
2006-08-11 02:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by Hyper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i think you are getting cheated on because you seem to put others in positions to make them feel that you are cheating on them! for example: you said you've gotten opportunities to have sex with someone more attractive. how did you get into this position without flirting and being a cheat yourself?! you're being cheated on probably because your EXs think that you're cheating on them. you seem very flirtatious. so my advice is not to go out with the mentality of "I'm going to cheat on everyone from here on out" but, go with the positive mentality of "I'm going to find Mr.right and when i do I'm not going to flirt with other guys. i want only Mr. right period!" and make sure Mr.right knows and see that. for every action there is a equal and opposite reaction.
2006-08-11 02:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by ShaneA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Stay your same faithful self and you will find someone worth your time- sometimes it takes getting burned a few times but you will find someone who wont cheat on you. Never forgive a cheater, if they do it once they will do it again. No "mistakes about it" Good luck finding a relationship worth your time and efforts.
2006-08-11 02:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! when you have found the right one there will be no need to cheat cause he would never cheat on you. dont give in and be just as bad as your ex's looks for a faithful boyfriend that loves you
2006-08-11 02:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by somethingcorporate<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. Corny but true. And what if you cheat on the one person who wouldn't have cheated on you? Plus you'll hurt yourself and feel like a nitwit for sinking to their level.
2006-08-11 02:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋