So why do guys always go after the easy girls and never want to persue the girls who have morals (like myself). Is it really all about jsut getting in their pants?
2006-08-11 02:18:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all guys go after easy girls. I don't. I have to respect and trust a girl before I really start to pursue her. If she dresses provocatively then I find it very difficult to respect or trust her. Morals are very important to me. I could care less if I got into a girl's pants after a few dates. It's much more rewarding to bond with her and go without sex for months than it is to act purely out of lust. Sex without love is immoral. It's nice to be with a girl who is ladylike and has self control.
Guys who go after easy girls do it for 1 of 3 reasons: 1) They have low self esteem and aren't confident enough to pursue a girl who would be worthwhile in a relationship. If they had sex it would boost their ego. 2) They have little or no self control. 3) They're too scared of being rejected so they go for what they know they can get.
2006-08-11 18:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Silver Spoon 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
With the guys that go after the girls with no morals, yes, it is all about getting some. It is hard for girls who do have morals because it seems like the guys who want more than someone to sleep with are hard to find. They are out there but very scarce. Good luck in finding one but when you do hang on to him. And cherish him.
2006-08-11 02:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
These so called "easy" girls are just normal girls that know what they want and aren't afraid to get after it. Then there's girls with "morals" (like you) that don't want to do anything sexual and come off as boring or just hard to get close to. I personally prefer normal girls (aka easy) because I see no reason why I shouldn't get close and sexual with someone I'm interested in. So basically you need to find a guy like you and stop complaining about other guys.
2006-08-11 02:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Girls that are easy are very more approachable. They barely wear clothes, lots of makeup and some guys are attracted to that. But when it's time to sit down and get married, the guys go for the simple, classic, chic and down to earth girls...ever notice that? They want their cake and eat it too, so they want to have fun, but when it's time to settle down, they'll be looking for the girls with the morals....that's just how guys are!
2006-08-11 02:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by Imthelittlesis 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This should answer your question..............Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in
reality, they're amazing. They are just waiting for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
2006-08-11 02:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by wilfreds805 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
It helps. To be honest, if your mother told you all men prefer a woman who is a challenge, or respect them more, she was mistaken. I really don't equate a woman who enjoys sex & a woman who lacks morals as one in the same, so I prefer a relationship where things are more relaxed, & we tend to one another's needs. If I'm being put off, then I get resentful & feel as though I'm being used so she can get the companionship & understanding she wants, but I don't get the physical intimacy I desire. With a girl who is "easy" my needs are being met, & I'm more willing to meet her needs. With girls who force me to wait more than what I feel is a reasonable time, I usually walk away rather than waste time & money on something that doesn't look like it will pan out for me. So, it may not be all about getting in a girl's pants, but that is as important to a man to feel closer to a woman as having conversations is for women. I'm not encouraging you to go back on your morals, because you should do what's right for you & be proud of your decision. Just realize that all decisions have consequences, & the one you have made causes disinterest from some guys. Try not to judge women harshly who don't make the same choice as you, as that perpetuates the unfair double-standard women have placed on themselves for a long time. If you don't want to sleep with men, that's your right, but try not to judge the women who enjoy healthy sex lives harshly. It's worse to judge people than to like sex, & there's always someone who can turn around & judge you for something you do, too. I hope I've answered your question well enough. Not all men will think as I do, but there are enough who would agree with me to make this worth considering.
2006-08-11 02:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well for one yes it is all about the sex. But just because you love sex doesnt mean you dont have morals or are easy. Now a girl that fvcks everything that walks, yes that is easy and yea she would more than likely fvck her sisters man or best freinds man which makes her immoral. I'm easy when it comes to givin upto my man but I have morals and I would never cheat on him or fvck my sisters man or any thing like that. Youll get the hang of it. Just dont sleep with everything that walks but when you like a guy and you know you want to be with him then put out, your going to have sex anyway if you are together. If he leaves you afterwards then thats just a chance we take everytime we meet someone new.
2006-08-11 04:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by 420girl 2 · 1⤊ 5⤋
you're just getting interested at the wrong guys. if you really have morals, then you would be attracted to guys with morals too...not the ones that you see everywhere. easy guys naturally get attracted to easy girls also. if you are attracted to those easy guys also (because it clearly shows in your question as you are complaining about them), then maybe you're not too moral after all.
2006-08-11 02:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
yes the mojority of the time it is just about getting in their pants ! so therefore they will take the easiest girl first and come to you when they are ready to settle down ! iam like yourself, and i felt like you have a couple of years ago untill i found an older bloke, who was ready to settle down !!!!! he treats me like gold ! look for an older , more wiser man
2006-08-11 02:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by sweets 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course not... 4 me, a girl has 2 have morals... easy girls just turn me off
2006-08-11 02:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by funkyt0wn 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋