we have all known each other, me and my two friends.i have always like this guy and he began dating my friend.now my friend flew out of the country and he is here with me.he is making advances at me and i really like him. what do i do.i think am in love with him.
2006-08-11 02:11:08 · 16 answers · asked by xhosi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thing is i knew the dude before her .we had lots of chances to be together but circumstances always stood in our way.either we were never in the same town or we were both seein other people.thts the thing. i have wanted to be with him for so long and now i can.the chik became my friend because of him.its been five years i have been waiting to have him and now i can coz he wants be bak.is it so bad to live this dream that i have had for years.
2006-08-11 02:34:21 · update #1
A friend´s ex is ALWAYS off limits! There are many other pigs in the pasture!
2006-08-11 02:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but it's not a good idea to give in to his advances. You and your friend had been friends for much longer than you known this guy. Guys come and go but your friends will be there for you.
If I were you, don't give in and see what happens between him and your friend. If their relationship ends for some reason, don't go to him right away. Give them some time and if you 2 still have feelings for each other and if your friend is okay with it, then you should pursue each other. But for now, have him keep his distance because he's borderline crossing the line.
2006-08-11 02:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bibi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is off limits!! He's dating your friend....have some self respect and integrity and stay away from him!If he is doing that behind your friends back, then just think of what he'd do to you if he were with you! Remember: always treat people the way you'd like to be treated! Would you want your friend to do that to you? And people may forget what you said or did ..but they will NEVER forget how you made them feel!! Your friend would be very hurt!!! You don't want to be responsible for that do you?
2006-08-11 02:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should be clear in this. Realise the things happening. In the begining he was dating with ur friend, now she is not in country, so his mind is searching for a new one. One thing is there in this world, if one goes off from a pair definitly another will fall mentally sick, this is for time being only.... have u realised the future, if ur friend comes back....... so u should decide....... concentrate on ur works, u have ur own life and career......... take care.......
2006-08-11 02:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pradeep P K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever makes you think that you are inlove with him? what you're feeling is just a surge of hormones because of your age, and that is not an indicator of love because feelings change all the time and its never stable. so in the first place---you dont love him because love isn't about feelings or emotions.
you said "he began dating your friend"..so that means that he likes your friend. then when she's not around he tries to get to you...that means he is just using you for the timebeing that your friend isnt around. when your friend arrives, he'll be with her as fast as he is making advances on you. you should be smarter than that.
2006-08-11 02:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have your head screwed in the wrong way around, you need to have your head screwed in correctly. You are such a preditor. Dont you know that friends dont share men. Where do you come from. You need to find you own man. What's wrong with you. You behave like a loose panty. I don't even thimk you love him, you just want to jump his bones.
2006-08-11 02:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more your friend or this guy who is willing to cheat on his girlfriend with her friend. He will probably do the same thing to you. Karma is a tricky thing if you want to save yourself a lot of hurt and confusion leave him alone.
2006-08-11 02:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad, bad idea. You NEVER move in on a friend's man unless you don't care about losing her friendship. It's really a skanky thing to do. Find someone else.
2006-08-11 02:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by eriqak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he and your friend break-up? Or is she just out of the country for vacation? I think you know it would be wrong or else you wouldn't be looking for affirmation.
2006-08-11 02:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say it is but if they broke it off they should be over each other and moving on if your attracted to him go for it. I don't see wats wrong their not seeing each other anymore. Why should you have to suffer?
2006-08-11 02:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋