am i unlucky?? im not good looking person.......
we are not rich........ i dont have a true friend........
im idiot...... im adopted..........
this is my life situation.......
how can i be happy????
im so depress......
2006-08-11 01:46:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Happiness is what you make of it. I am not rich but have nice things. I have very few friends but they are true friends. If you are truly depressed seek help. Only you can change the future.
2006-08-11 01:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True happiness is being at peace with yourself. People find it in different ways... mine was turning to my religion. I spent years on anti-depressants only to realize that I needed to change how I feel about myself.
You say you're not good looking... To whose standards? God doesn't make mistakes.
You say you're adopted... It's said that a natural child is a gift from nature, an adopted child is a gift from the heart.
You say you're not rich... well join the club! You can't take it with you when you go anyways.
You say you have no true friend... Be one and you will find one.
You say you're an idiot... Is that a fact or you just being down on yourself? I bet there are a lot of things you're good at and you should count those.
You need to start viewing life as half full instead of half empty. It's up to you to make that change. No one likes a pity party except the host/hostess. People don't care to be around negative people. Change that today.
2006-08-11 09:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - we start life alone, and we end life alone. Family, friends, marriages, relationships - they all end sooner or later.
The stuff that happens in life is just filler... get it?
Remember, happiness is not a "normal" state of existence. It's a learned response. Learn to be your own best friend... no matter what. Give yourself permission to be what ever you want. Live your life in a way that you are happy with and proud of. Be able to forgive yourself when you screw up.
If, in the process, you make friends, get plastic surgery, learn wisdom - well, then the filler is pretty good. But it's up to you what your life's filler consists of.
You sure don't sound like an "idiot". Just a little lost right now.
But - it's up to you... what 'ya gonna do?
2006-08-11 12:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tim B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, well only you can decide where you faith is. Why think negative how are you going have confidence in yourself?. Listen looks are not important to all people , for me its personality, humour etc. You have to love yourself if you want others too, i know it sounds stupid but its true. I couldnt even look myself in the mirrow at stages, and i was depressed. Chill out man take a holiday, find out who u r and what u want out of life. Once u got that into perspective then system all goes, things will happen as you will have the confidence. good luck :)
2006-08-11 08:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by shy pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True happiness comes from deep within you. It does not come from riches, or the number of people you know, or where you live. You have to look deep inside yourself and discover what really makes you happy. I believe a lot of people die without finally ever discovering what makes them purely happy.
2006-08-11 08:52:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True happiness can only be found within yourself. You need to start looking at your positive points. It sounds like you are concentrating on the negative. I'm sure you have positive features. Don't be so down on yourself.
2006-08-11 09:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True happiness is when you finally accept yourself as you are, love yourself, have confidence. Deal with issues that you are struggling with & just accept this is who you are. Eventually is will show in the way you carry yourself & others will see it. It not about looks but about how comfortable you are with you!
2006-08-11 08:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cliche but happiness is inside you...
try to change how you view yourself, and your life...
i bet you're luckier than the people in lebanon....
bet you're better looking than that kid in Africa who doesn't have a jaw....
bet you're richer than the guy who hasn't eaten in a week
bet you'll have a true friend if you try to be one
bet you're smarter than that asshole who's bombing that little country in the middle east
bet you are loved by your adoptive parents
you can be happy
there are people who care...
see you around...
2006-08-11 08:55:49 · answer #8 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be happy with yourself you need some motivation read some motivation articles
2006-08-11 08:49:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a smile in your heart
hopefully before you pass away
2006-08-11 08:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋