I live with my gradma. I don't think she wants me there. I have no money a part time job. but I can't save no money because I need that little bit to buy food and personal things. I lve in a very small town. I have no way to go around. I have caught a ride every where i go. what should I do?
2006-08-11 01:39:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You said that you THINK that you grandma doesn't want you there. Have you asked her? Maybe the two of you might need to communicate a bit more.
Respect your grandmother and her house and you should be ok.
2006-08-11 01:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by tjrj23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what town you live in or your age but there is help. Look in the phone book for Metroplolitin housing authority. They help low income people get a place to live and help pay rent. here is a link to one in columbus ohio http://www.cmhanet.com/
but you can look for one in your town.
Go to the employment office they too can help you with finding a job and resources to help train you etc....
If you get too bad down on your luck call a local church and talk to a minister. I'm sure he could give you some good advice.
Human services and the employment agency sometimes work together. They can help you get a fulltime job and they give vouchers for a car for low income people.
You know you also have to talk to your grandma. Ask her what you can do to make it easier on her. Tell her how you feel like your not wanted there. Dont give up hope. PRAYER is very important. God can see you through things when you see no way out. I will say a prayer for you... and its going to be ok!
2006-08-11 08:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sad Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your grandma and tell her exactly how you feel. if your suspiscions are true you need to have a plan. Try a shelter save money to go for training so that you can acquire skills for a better job and if possible still keep your part time job.
2006-08-11 09:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay where you are for now. If you are respecting your Gramma and her home there is no problem.
Look for a full time job and when you have some money under your belt then go get your own place.
Good Luck!
2006-08-11 08:44:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your behavior so your grandma DOES want you there. Obviously she does not want you there for a reason. Try cleaning and cooking for the woman. Buy her some flowers. Talk to her, be nice company. Be friendly.
2006-08-11 08:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i know you probably dont want to hear this but go to a shelter and they will help you tremendously..you will get a ride anywhere and they will help you dave your money and you will have food and then they jsut might put you in transitional housing which is an apartment...
2006-08-11 08:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by willsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as hard as it may be, you will have to save somehow. sacrifice is definately the key here. save up enough till you can get to a bigger town for a better job.
2006-08-11 08:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by digital genius 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting a job like everyone else
2006-08-11 08:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try getting a full time job...save some money from that....limit your spending a bit!
2006-08-11 09:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats you location.are you in an island or someting?
2006-08-11 08:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Gamvit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋