i m not well educated i hve 2 children they r stayin in hostel he doesnt send mi kids near me thy r 10 n 12 years old mi parents r sayin not to take divorce bcoz his father has property i m fed up wid him i m stayin in mi parents house
2006-08-11 01:19:10 · 17 answers · asked by kashyapreddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My dear this is your life, not anyone Else's. Why do you need permission to live your life? Who is bearing the discomfort of living like this - YOU - so don't you think that you should do what you have to make a life for yourself and your children. If you are not well educated - so what - if you really want it,you can do any kind of work - washing, cleaning, housekeeping, babysitting, the list is endless. Get out of the rut and live do not just exist.
2006-08-11 01:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by aew2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The essence of living is to live happily, whether u are educated or not, rich or poor.Education is not essential for earning money.Intelligence and hard work matter most.It is better to opt out of a life which u dont like, before u turn very old.
U have to take legal advise, about divorce, about meeting children,because even after divorce, the mother or father are permitted to meet the children.In ur case probably, u have to get a court direction that enables u to meet your children, even if they are in hostel.Good Luck.
2006-08-11 16:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by blessedwithsenseofhumour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many women like you in this country.
You say you are not well educated, but it is known that you can use computers.
Get a job some where, even as a house hold helper, and live your own life. You should have the guts to face the life. You need not hear your parents advise.
There are some NGOs / good souled persons, who could help you in this matter. Contact the one in your place, if it is there.
2006-08-11 04:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Electric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all! It sounds like you already have made up your mind. second if your not happy or safe u should leave with your children. I would ask my mother to support my decision and continue to let you stay with her. In go back to school for something that your interested in. then get a job save some money and get your own place eventually you will be able to buy your own land. don't let material things stand in the way of your happiness or your peace of mind. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-11 01:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by dj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget what your parents say... file for a divorce, and with a divorce ask him for your and your kids' share of the property... you will get it legally, but if you keep waiting, you can keep dreaming - you won't get anything..
as for your education, you don't have to be well-educated to get a job.. get the sort of job that you can... work in a store as sales assistant, get a sales/call center job.. there's so much you can do with yourself .. dont look for excuses to feel sorry for yourself.. and once you get that job and file for a divorce, demand the custody of your kids..
i'm sure the law would rather have a poor but mentally stable woman look after her kids, than a rich drunkard!
2006-08-11 01:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and try to get back in school. There are many programs for adults that train you for a job and you will feel so much better about yourself!!! Good luck!!!
2006-08-11 01:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your feeling on his behavior and if they don't improve then you must stand up for what you feel to be fair, even if it means leaving him for good, go to legal aid, explain yous situation to them and they will help you to make a clean break.
Best of luck.
2006-08-11 01:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by schuan.heyliger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not okay for him to treat you like that, i grew up in a home where my mom acted like my fathers servant and i hated it. all women are just as strong as any men, whether they like it or not. so, even though divorce is not big in my religion, i would say that would be the answer. don't put yourself through it any longer and certainly don't put your kids through it.
2006-08-12 19:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by WaterBabie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first thing I would do is work on your English before you post next. Maybe that will get some better answers
2006-08-11 01:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Zef_66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-11 02:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by rumi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋