my boyfriend wants to get back with me after basically leaving me for someone else..i feel like i want to?

Question

take revenge...girls u know what im talking about....so he wants me to make a list of all the things that need to change for me to take him back hahaha

i told him i would..what should i put on that list? Take in mind, that i beleive he will never change and i will not take him back unless he proves himself for like 10 years! which is impossible.... but any tips, help suggestion..its been 6 months since the breakup, and we were together for 4 years

p.s. and yes im still trying to find someone else

Answer 1

ask him to take yoga classes with you. he'll never do that.

Answer 2

Well he could be sincerely sorry for his mistake, or its that when he had you he thought that the grass was greener on the other side and went for it. Once he did and the thrill died down, he realized that he did in fact have it better with you and is now trying any means to win you back. I say don't even waste your time with this idiot because if you did happen to go back after awhile, he'd most likely do it again. The best way to get him back is to show absolutely no interest in him at all. If you keep any sort of communication then he thinks he has a chance or at least you still care and to be honest this scumbag doesnt deserve to entertain the idea that you care because you are definitely better then all of this. No one deserves to be disrespected like that and if I were you...I'd just keep living your life as you were for the past six month and look for someone new who won't treat you like your disposable and will give you the love and respect that you deserve...good luck...

Answer 3

Well since he left you for someone else tell him that he cant be looking at other girls. His roaming little eyes is what made him leave you to start with. But you have the right to have roaming eyes because its the all great revenge game lol. But u dont tell him that part about your roaming eyes,duh. No porn for him, but porn for you while hes asleep and then he wakes up to u watching porn. That gets them every time. He cant chat with no females online but the males you have on your list arent going no where, lol. But see heres the trick dont do all this right away, make him think you love him oh so much for a while, let him get set on having you for a while. In the mean time be finding you another guy. And the last two or three weeks of the end start doing all the stuff you told him he couldnt do and then dump him for your other guy. Let him walk in on the two of you. But be ready for a fight if u do that one. lol But wait a min.... did he let you beat the girls ***... nope so send his *** to jail when he comes in and tries to beat your guys ***. That will also give you time to get his **** out or you get out whatever! Have fun!

Answer 4

don't string him along for the sake of revenge. In the end, you might end up getting hurt yourself. If you don't wanna get back with him (which I can imagine), tell him so. Who knows what great guys you'll be missing out on simply because you're stringing your ex bf along for the sake of revenge...

Answer 5

once you take him back he will do the same thing in the end

Answer 6

good decision - whatever you do, don't take him back!!!

but you could put... get a job/education.. become decent.. get a brain, get a life.....do everything you ask.....

Answer 7

don't wast your time on a looser when you could spend it finding someone else.

Answer 8

follow your heart

Answer 9

have fun with him and dump him at your whenever