My ex and I broke up last summer after three months, said he wasnt ready for committment. He has been in touch once a week or so via text, last Monday he text to say "was in the local nightclub Sunday night and was hoping to bump into ya" he seems to be txting a little more of late.I really am comfused think i still have feelings for him, i never see him, only once or twice since we broke up. When he heard i was dating a guy out near him he was texting again and saying "im on a stag and its full of ladies at this venue but all i can think of you" help!!!!!!
2006-08-11 00:47:25 · 18 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about him, he's got issues and it's showing.
2006-08-11 00:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-12 04:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys want what they can't have. While you were available, he wasn't quite interested, now that you're with someone else he suddenly is dying of love for you ? Pleaaaase...... I've seen that a thousand times.
"im on a stag and its full of ladies at this venue but all i can think of you"
Of course he only thinks about you, the girls around him are easy to reach, while you're a little hard to get right now. The minute you'll be his again, the situation will be exactly like last summer. Wanna bet ?
Okay maybe he's not trying to make a fool of you, but i don't think you should break up with your bf just to be with him. Remember what he said himself - he's not ready for commitment. Don't commit to someone who can't offer you the same thing.
By the way, what zodiac sign is he ? Just curious...
2006-08-11 08:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by n_u_s_i_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you back because of the whole challenge now that you might be taken and he can't have you. Im 23 and going through a divorce and my ex tried to get back with me once he found out I was seeing someone new. So once he thought I was done with the guy, his interest in me died down again and we are back on the divorce path. Don't waste your time on the dude and try to maintain as lil contact as possible because if you do still have feelings those lingering emotions might interfere with your better judgement. Trust me it's really not worth it...
2006-08-11 09:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it surely hurts when a guy will tell u after u have been serious that they are not ready for commitment so its also usual not to trust a guy's initiative when hes trying to win you back.. sometimes men would not realize a lady's worth until he lost her to someone else and when that happens they also go into panic mode. best thing to do is to ask him straight out what he wanted from you now and try ur best to gauge from his answer if he really wants you back for good or he is just missing his toy.. whatever may be the outcome of that heart to heart talk, always remember u control ur destiny so it will still be up to you in the end if u want to risk it again or leave him for good.
2006-08-11 07:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though he is messing with your feelings now after finishing with you.
If it didn't work the first time around certainly not likely to do so again.
He obviously doesn't like the idea that you have got on with your life since the split.
Leave him to deal with whatever issues he has in life. He's definitely not worth worrying about after all this time.
Get out there and carry on enjoying your life.
2006-08-11 08:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Caz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex for a reason move on there are too many guys in the world to be stressed over one......
oh and two can play at his game let him know u are not interested by telling him what u and your new boyfriend are up to and let him know how much fun u r having without any mention of him........treat him like your best friend.
2006-08-11 07:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is not making a fool out of you but is just defensive with what is happening to himself these days. Possibly, he still loves you but is just giving himself more time to prepare for a more serious relationship with you in the future. His letting you know about his being in those places with other girls is a manifestation that he wants to see how you would react about that. He might not be telling you those things to hurt you but to see your reaction and somehow, he might be discovering for himself if you still care for him.
If you still love him, just give him time to think about things over. He may be in the process of finding his real self and his ability to commit himself to the woman he loves.
Just let him know even not through words that you still care for him the moment you come face to face with him again. Actions speak louder than words, remember? His knowing and realizing that somewhere out there, a woman like you, cares for him despite your past experience with him, may make him realize and decide sooner to go back to your arms.
Meanwhile, just firmly believe in your heart that if you are meant for each other, Destiny will move him towards your path to be in your arms once more; if not, then just wait for the right man to come your way and let Destiny lead him to you. Good luck.
2006-08-11 08:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to think he's devasting, and that you will run to him when he lays a hint that he'd like to see you, because he wants to think he can get you to leave your new boyfriend for him. if you do, he will have gotten what he wants from you, and will have a problem with committment again, until you get another boyfriend. when you do, history will repeat itself, and he'll be texting you again. let the loser go. if all he could think of was you, he'd be with you. you probably don't really have feelings for him except the sting of being dumped. you will get over that, especially if you let that sting make you realize he's a jerk who plays games at other people's expence.
2006-08-11 08:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by Debi K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cant make a fool out of you unless you let him,you have done nothing wrong that I can see so far,in fact you have went on with your life.If you are dating another guy and that is working out then dont think of going backwards,if it didnt work before,it wont work now.Straight ahead girl,dont look back
2006-08-11 07:54:10 · answer #10 · answered by TAMMY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need no help on the you broke up, just read the email and for get about it,as if you are reading the news paper
2006-08-11 07:52:36 · answer #11 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋