Im coming back to the UK after a long time abroad,I have never gone out with a British guy only Yanks,who are too pushy,commitment phobic and far too insecure about a woman who earns more than them.Is this just men in general or are British blokes different?If so how?
2006-08-11 00:35:50 · 14 answers · asked by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its a man thing babe,they would prefer you to be earning less so you would be more dependant on him.bit like control really,as you are beautiful girl also no wonder they want commitment .stay happy xx
2006-08-11 00:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different. My boyfriend isn't pushy, commitment-phobic, or insecure about me earning more than him. He wants to be a teacher, and I want to be a clinical Psychologist. We're both still students - I'm in my final undergraduate year, and he's about to do a Masters.
He doesn't fear commitment, he's a bit of a planner in actual fact, always thinking to the future.
That doesn't mean all guys are this way though. Some are commitment freaks. However, there are plenty of guys who will want to settle down with you. I've never been to America so I can't compare through experience, but if you're the right girl, the right guy will be happy to settle down with you.
It may not be easy, but you'll find him.
2006-08-11 03:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by old_but_still_a_child 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just men in general. Most of them like to be the breadwinner and don't like the fact that a woman can earn more than them. It could also be the line of work you are in. I can see that you are very pretty and so my guess is that there is a lot of interest from men wherever you go - this would probably make most men dating you jealous or very insecure as they feel you might meet someone better looking or with more money than them.
2006-08-11 00:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by Showaddywaddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GEEEEEEE don't go back until you've tried THIS yank , who is none of the above things. You can earn 5 trillion more than me and I don't care, I'm not in a hurry, and I'm not afraid of commitment either. And I play a mean guitar too , so don't leave yet!
2006-08-11 15:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Thom Thumb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they are all different but generally they are a bit kinder, shyer and although egos not so big as your yank experiences, still there.
Try to meet some men who are friends of friends so you can do background checks first.
Good Luckx
2006-08-11 00:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by churchls0904 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 08:40:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not serious or a woman, but I can tell you there are some English blokes that can't cope with not being the main bread winner, but there are plenty who couldn't care less.
2006-08-11 00:40:51 · answer #7 · answered by jimbo_thedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i think each guy is different
i mean, i know some guys who cant wait to settle and some guys who never want to, i know some who want a rich bird and some who want to be the money maker, some are pushy, some are laid back....every guy is different and i dont think i could say anything about UK guys that wouldn't be totally unfair to a whole load of em
2006-08-11 00:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I like are women who will go on all the rides at Alton Towers. But not if their midgets because of height restrictions.
2006-08-11 00:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by brandit2001uk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I'm neither serious, or a woman, but I am grown that should count for something...
but, damn, I'm starting to feel abandoned here. ;-)
2006-08-11 17:48:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋