i need to stop thinking abt the guy i left. i dont want him but find myself at times thinking of the good and bad times we shared. its depressing me i just want to forget it all. how do i do that?
2006-08-11 00:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let Time do that for you.. unfortunately human mind works continuesly and its hard to stop it, but all of these will fade away with time.. just try to keep you self busy and try not to think about it..
2006-08-11 00:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by Nazanin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that you are suffering from loneliness and that it is a feeling and this current phase in your life with pass - otherwise you are very likely going to get yourself into a relationship that was similar to the last one you have and you will repeat the same mistakes you made in the past. It sounds like ought to take a period of time to take a short break from dating until you have your emotions better sorted out. Right now you sound like a trainwreck.
2006-08-11 07:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I broke up with my first "true" love i was devastated and was depressed for 4 days I came around saying she will take me back or their r other girls he might feel the same way like me but he doesn't show it like u
Enjoy Life while u can, U only get it once
2006-08-11 07:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by Boguck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing things that are fun for you and can distract you. Keep your self busy. Its hard to get started but if you find yoyrself able to get out there then don't stop. Plus one more thing do not run into another relationship...that would be bad!
2006-08-11 07:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love of my love recently broke my heart and the only way I can get up and get through the day without jumping off a roof is to assume she died. I know its harsh but it does work a little.
Day by day it eases and you stop going through it all in your mind.
Grieve the relationship.But dont let it get you down sweetie.
Chin up.
2006-08-11 07:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Rob G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone new, but be honest about the fact that you are getting over someone.
Go out with friends, party, that always helps.
2006-08-11 07:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Draco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on this site on how to forget about it and move on
2006-08-11 07:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not possible to control ur mind.
so let it think over for a while and then condition it with other ideas and works so that u r finally distracted.
2006-08-11 07:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not too think too hard. there are many people in the world who are heart broken. Try to help sombody & you will feel positive energy.
2006-08-11 07:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by arnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out get drunk it helps for a bit
2006-08-11 07:08:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋