wat he/she shud do in that case? keep indian society in mind.
2006-08-10 22:59:04 · 14 answers · asked by karan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is blind that is why cupid has been painted blind. One can fall in love, in the sense you have used the term, at any stage of life. Marriage holds no guarantee that he or she will not fall prey to the passionate appeal another person has for him or her, as the case may be. That is how many homes are broken after marriage and many have been convicted for having killed or got killed the spouse with the help of the paramour. Well, it is difficult to say whether it is true love or not. Love is ones liking for anther whole heartedly. Whether such love is justifiable after marriage is a different issue altogether. Moralists will never support such conduct which disturbs the social harmony and against the vow a person takes with Agni as a witness in Indian(Hindu) society.
2006-08-10 23:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Indian society or English society or Chinese society, it makes no difference.
Yes, a married person can feel true love even after marriage. Options , however are severely limited at this time if the other is not their spouse. The exact nature of the relationship is limited by the people involved. Sex as an expression of this feeling is not an option.
Divorce from the present spouse is usually not a good idea unless there are not children and no additional family ties. If the married couple is not emotionally bonded, then it is up to them to seek a mutual solution as a couple. This solution may not be socially viewed as acceptable.
Far too often, however, the extra-marital feeling is not True Love, but Romance. Romance will always fade with time. True Love does not.
2006-08-12 10:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by Richard 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Indian society is a traditional society, if you want to be part of that society do whatever it is expected from you and basically forget about you new love if its not your husband. But if you don't care about anything and you want to do the thing that you feel it is right, get a divorce and be with a man you love.
2006-08-10 23:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Nazanin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the question should be clarified. Are you asking, is it possible to fall in love wtih your wife only after you are married? If so, then absolutely. But if you are asking is it possible to fall in love with someone else other than your wife, then it means that there's problems in your marriage and that's why you think you're in love with someone else. Anyway, sometimes, you should accept that different people fulfill different needs in our lives, a wife might do one thing, but perhaps you just need a friend for other things. It doesn't necessarily mean that that is romantic love.
2006-08-10 23:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by diegocab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a person can fall in love at any age only thing is that after marriage it would not be acceptable socially so we stay away from it. but as the poem says a thing of beauty is joy for ever similarly falling in love is a joy forever
2006-08-10 23:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by nandru_22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before marriage u should decide this ok... so know u are already married plz one humble request from u dont do this mistake becoz see if ur wife think in the same the way and if she do this can u tolerate it no u cant.... becoz whoever it may be they want the complete ...... ok similarly even she cannot tolerate it..... "if u cant be with the one u love love the one ur with" so plz keep it in ur mind dont do this mistake ok be good and happy for wat u have.... and if u really fee l that u love someone then u totally avoid the things which makes u to go closer to her ......
2006-08-14 02:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by sam cmanisam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get remote from that love. You stick on on your duty in direction of your spouse. there's a proverb announcing that greed is 30 days and lust for 60 days. so which you're into this occasion. Later you will repent for it and you will not get out of this for existence long. extra suited decrease that relation now in basic terms and take a examine out to make up your loved ones and take a examine out to be happy and content with your spouse. that's not in basic terms good on your loved ones additionally right for you and your society.
2016-10-01 22:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can be attracted to he or she. But that is not love. We will atlast say we love our own hus or wife. That is natural. We may like the persons gestures, talk or something. But when things become serious we will go back
2006-08-13 23:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely it happened to me after I was married 12 years.
2006-08-10 23:02:24 · answer #9 · answered by sonnyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and follow the heart., it does not matter what sociey you are in ., double standards and cowardlyness is not preferable
2006-08-10 23:40:04 · answer #10 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋