well i have a boyfriend now but i still love my ex and i think ill rather be whith him oh and me and my ex are like the best off friends . i dont whant to hurt the other one because he relly cares for me but i feal nothing for him what should i do
2006-08-10 22:35:22 · 28 answers · asked by maria_e126 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel nothing, you have to end it now. It's not fair to let it drag on. He'll be hurt, but less than if you keep lying to him.
2006-08-10 22:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Me And My G/F Have Been Thru This...She Was Catching Feelings For EX So I Told Her She Needs To Move On And She Did...And Now We Are Completely Happy...LOL....But If You Have No Feelings For The Guy Your With You Should Go Ahead And Break It Off Before You Really Do Hurt That Guy's Feelings.
2006-08-11 05:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by iLL_TeK_NeekZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be clear what you want, if you are clear at that level then there won't be any conflict.
So first clear you mind and think about it, don't let other factors to drive your decision.
You yourself are a better judge of what you want, not body else can't help in that only you can have a point of view related to that what they would do if they face the same situation.
As far as my point of view goes, I would have made my priorities cleared and continued the kind of relationship I want with both of them.
2006-08-11 05:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, ask yourself, what is the reason that you broke up with your ex. yes, it gonna be unfair to your current bf, but you have to face it. everyone is selfish and we go for the best. let him know he is a good guy and he deserve someone who can love him who all her heart. don drag yourself or him by staying on to this relationship. don wait till things are too late to be tidy up. there is never a space in your heart that can accommodate two love at a time. tidy up your feeling first before you speak to your current bf ya, if not you be making another regret. make sure what you really wan in a relationship. once you have decided, don regret like what you are feeling now. good luck.cheers
2006-08-11 05:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by flo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my!! what a situation.. honestly,ive experienced such situation like yours.. i have a boyfriend but i love my ex too.. you know whom ive chosen?? my boyfriend right then of course.. my reason was that is i do not want to live in the past, i want face the present..got what i mean..?? between you and your ex had long been gone and had been ended,so why not face the consequence of having another boyfriend yet you dont love.. try to love him and forget your past..nothing will happen if you will stick to the past..
2006-08-11 05:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by zimran!!.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all I can tell you is your break one there hearts but I just got over something like this with one my ex friends and I was in Love with her but she didn't have no feelings for me but she had for her boyfriend that still is her boyfriend but I was the friend she ended everthing betten us.Im saying check if your boyfriend if can talk into being just friends.
2006-08-11 05:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what more hurting, for him to find out that all this time when he was loving u, u didnt love him but didn't want to hurt him,u were instead with with out of pity, tell him the truth, not that u love yo ex but that u dont feel the same way as he does
2006-08-11 05:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you boyfriend and tell him how you feel (don't tell him about your feeling for your ex). Then talk to your ex and tell him you still have feelings for him and that you want to get back together. But be careful. Let him know you can still be friends if he doesn't want to get back together, so that he doesn't feel any pressure about it.
2006-08-11 05:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by pikola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel nothing for this guy then i think you should def break up wit him cod if he does really care for you then your only leading him on and its only gonna hurt him further if you keep stringing him along maybe you sld try being sinlge for a while.ive been in a situation like this before and unfortunitly someone always gets hurt
2006-08-11 05:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nuts lady. I don't want to hurt is so often an excuse. Stop it and get on with your life. We all have to deal with hurt frim time to time and you probably will as well when your X takes you back then throws you out again.
2006-08-11 05:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋