how do u know if you're gay im so lost and scared please help!!?

Answer 1

Life is hard on people who have to figure out where they stand. But you shouldn't be scared, talk to people who are in the same situation, experiment....you are who you are....stand up and be proud....these feeling might just be curiosity.....Talk, listen and learn...and most of all enjoy your life

Answer 2

Just because you find yourself being attracted to someone who is of the same sex as yourself, does not mean that you are a closet gay, dying to come out. It could just mean that you are a bit curious. Perhaps your harmones are acting up temporarily. Or perhaps you recently heard about the blissfull feelings of gay couples that you know personally and are wondering if you might be missing out on your happniness. There could be a lot of reasons why you are feeling the way you are feeling right now. I would not draw any final conclusions just yet. You should give it some time. Things change, feelings change and even harmones change. Its pefectly normal to be confused about these things.

Another point is this. Let us assume that indeed you were meant to be gay, and are wondering about it? Well, even that will happen when the time is right. Everything happens in its own time. Don't rush!

Answer 3

As some people have already noted, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to members of the same sex. So, don't worry, don't be scared, just take some time to think about how you react to different people, and think about whether it seems like you're more attracted to one gender or the other. It's fairly normal to be confused during adolescence, as it's a time where patterns are just getting established. Because of that, it's a period of increased experimentation, and it's somewhat expected you might need to try on a few different roles to see if one seems to fit you better than the others.
Good luck with it, and don't be afraid--you're perfectly normal, everyone goes through a similar phase.

Answer 4

I'd Say If You Find Yourself Sexually Attracted To The Same Sex....You Might Be Gay...

Answer 5

You might not be sure if you are Gay until it comes down to the choice.Man Or Woman.Or you could like both.You might be scared but you will feel comfortable with it once you realize it yourself.Try this.When you see a girl walk down the street.Rate her.And when you see a guys walk down the street rate him.Its simple easy.It might work.

Answer 6

Why are you scared? What's wrong with being gay? Just explore all avenues of sexuality, it doesn't matter what you call it, it's all part of life. People attach too much importance to social labelling. Sod that just go with what you feel and you'll be fine.

Answer 7

oh sweetheart I dont know how you know but I am kinda thinking you just do. How do I know I am straight I just do. Not much help I know but you need to talk to a friend about this someone you can thrash out your feelings with. Hope you sort it out. Dont be scared it doesnt matter what you are as long as you are a good person. Love Ya

Answer 8

I don't know if there is a "standard measurement" to tell whether or not you are gay. But let me tell you this: be yourself no matter you are gay or not! You can also look up more gay information ( not gay porn ) and learn more about it.

Answer 9

Did u ever have fantasy dreams with any person of the same sex?? Are u ever over-attracted to a person of the same sex...and few more lesser relevant questions will help u get rid of the doubts!!

Answer 10

Its simple if you are REALLY sexually attracted to the same sex then you are gay! if your going out with the opposite sex and you still want to be with the same sex then thats a definite also! good luck!