Well I am going out with this kid and I am only 13 and so is he. I really really like him but just tonight I found out he smokes pot. I don't do any kind of drug whatsoever and don't plan on it. Please tell me truthfully if I should break up with him or not. I really dont want to though, and I know he won't stop. =[[[
2006-08-10 21:54:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably won't stop for a long time to come. Just don't start yourself and start looking for someone that's more into the things you like also.
2006-08-10 22:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell him that you don' like him smoking pot. Let him know that you don't like him smoking it or that he's high when he's with you. Ask him why he's doing it and tell him that you like him better if he doesn't smoke it. You have to know that he won't stop by doing pot.He will try other stuff. If he doesn't listen to you then he's not worth your time. I'm sure you can find a better guy.
2006-08-11 05:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by pikola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT !!! BREAK IT OFF !!!
Pot is drug ... and drug abusers r not even good as human beings so hw good a bf do u think he wld be ??
There r tonnes of other exciting n cool young men out in the world n you r still so young ... dun ruin ur life by messing arnd wif pot smokers ...
Good luck n hav fun ...
2006-08-11 05:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him. open things up. tell him how you hate his smoking habit. after all, love is not all about changing the true self of one another. but appreciating differences which will be the way to help both of you become better individuals.
besides, you're only 13. you still have a long way to go. dont rush on things.
enjoy life!
2006-08-11 04:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by tweetytweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being a pot head does not make you a bad person. If he treats you rite that is all that matters (as long as you really like him)But at the same time don't start smoking just for him
2006-08-11 05:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me there are better guys out there. I remember being 13 and in love you think it is amazing and complete.... it gets way better but you should be with someone who is at the same intellectual level as you or it won't work and obviously this guy is not
2006-08-11 05:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by Draco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he 13 smoking weed anyway? I would just stay away from him because i've learned from the after school specials from my days that he will eventually get you in trouble.
2006-08-11 05:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by chocolatechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even try to stay, reason, or argue with him. I've seen people like that - intimately, and believe me they don't change. They are addicts. Chances of lifelong drug use: 75-100%. Don't go there - be happy!
2006-08-11 04:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by bwsnyder2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u care , u have to help him,wheather u still be togeather or not. u talk to him, have a research on it then take you results to him, if he wont listen trying talking to someone his close to about his situation,some kids are just messed up, gud luck
2006-08-11 05:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him. he's not worth every patience you've got. don't worry you'll find someone better...eventually.
2006-08-11 05:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Ice G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋