I'm studying in an all girl school, and I really like this girl,though, I'm not a tomboy but I can't help it. I'm a third year student now and I I really want to focus on my studies. I was so haapy to know that she'll be my classmate for this year but then I was so shocked when she told me that she really liked this girl(not me). The problem is both of them (my crush and her crush) are my classmates! I feel so bothered, and it's affecting my studies very badly. I can't focus on my studies because I'm thinking about her and her crush. Since the day she told me her crush, I wasn't able to focus on anything. I even cried that night because I was so hurt. Now, I'm failing my academics because of this. The moment she told me that awful thing...I almost fainted in shock! I felt that I'm going to die already. I felt stupid because she's been my crush since First year, and imagine..it's been three years but then everything was ruined in only one minute! It really feels like hell!
2006-08-10 21:50:35 · 12 answers · asked by Ice G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not expecting that we will be like super close but I really want her to be my friend. But it's so hard to do it because she's so popular at school and I don't want others(especially her friends) to see me as a social climber!
I'm trying to be strong but the pain keeps holding on, and all I wanna do is cry. :(
I love her so much, and I'm trying my best to focus on my studies and spend lesser time thinking of her and that girl she likes.
2006-08-10 22:58:18 · update #1
Im sorry about your pain, that must be very difficult. Although I havent been in your situation exactly, I think everyone has experienced loss and pain in some form of infatuation or love. The best thing I can suggest is to really allow yourself to purge it out of your system. Try to set up just a couple hours in a day to drain it all out. Look at pictures, listen to songs, write poetry, etc...cry and let it all out, but just in this time frame. Then after the time is up, listen to upbeat music, try something new, hang out with family or meet some new people, pamper yourself. You will find that as the days go by you will need less and less time to purdge it out of your system...and soon you wont need it at all. Keep a journal to show yourself your progress too. Take care and good luck
2006-08-10 21:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel this way because you have no boys at school. Well, it's a strange situation. She told you because she trusts and likes you. You are a good friend. But, she doesn't want to kiss you, I guess. Well, you aren't a lesbian, right? So anyway, if she was friends with the other girl first, and then had a crush on you, would you think the other girl should feel you will ruin her life? No, you could be nice to both. You need more friends, and boys to talk with every day. Or, maybe accept you love girls? It's not impossible. You could tell her and she will tell you not to feel bad. Of course she likes you too!
2006-08-10 21:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by bwsnyder2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you could only read your letter sometime from now then you'll be having a good laugh at your stupidity over losing your whole academic future and ruining your studies for a dyke !!! Back to books then NOW !!! and study as hard as you can to prove to that "butch" that studies are for keeps and good future. Girls are all over the world. Grow up. Good Luck...........Still wondering? what'd I say? go to your studies !!!
2006-08-10 22:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you have some homosexual tendacies, which is fine by me, whatever floats your boat. Did you tell her that you were interested in her, if yes then just move on to another chick(i'm sure that won't be hard to do in an all girl school) if no then tell her and see what comes of it.
2006-08-10 21:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by chocolatechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I somewhat do not think of for you to experience undesirable. If it rather is not the form of guy you're searching for then in simple terms pass on and save finding. finally you will come across a guy who suits the features you seek for and who will manage you with know, in comparison to 3 piece of meat. If something this guy ought to experience undesirable for being considered one of those participant. Whoo for self-know! :D
2016-10-01 22:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesbians are NOT bad, they are people just like straights and gays! I believe if you care for this girl as much as you typed or even more, you need to tell her. That's all... TELL HER!
2006-08-10 22:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you have to do and get over with it. Be honest to yourself and think for comes first with you that matters most.
2006-08-10 21:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by SAIF F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel about her before its too late and you lose her forever you never know she might be feeling the same way good luck
2006-08-10 21:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
swalllow a 'normal' pill and get a boyfriend. You'll be happier later in life.
2006-08-10 21:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by johnno K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how you feel.
You can even try a 3some.... lol
2006-08-10 21:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋