I have a problem here. I am with my current bf for a year plus. Things are not working out smoothly due to his busy work schedule. He is owning his own biz. On all occassions, he permit his staff to go on leave leaving him alone to fin up the work.He is pratically working 24/7. He seldom has time for me. After being with him for more then a year, it grows tired for me to be waiting and waiting for him for a proper date. And he never keep his promise on whatever he has promise me. My ques is, Should I continue with him or should I let go. I know I am pressurizing him with me initiating meet ups. But I really miss and need to see him most of the time cos I love him too much. What should I do?
2006-08-10 20:48:32 · 11 answers · asked by flo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going thru the same thing. I am questioning staying with my bf, partly thinking of the time commitment he has to work, and the fact that, like your bf, he doesnt seem to care (or at least it seems that way). i feel our relationship, if it should still be continued, should still be strong enough that he would try and make time for me in his work. I feel i love him more and that if he loved me as much as i do him he would want these meet ups. im going to try to find something else to take my mind off it for awhile,maybe by stopping pressuring him to be with him will make him want me, or maybe just seeing how live would be without him, maybe better? it may just be time for the relationship to end.
2006-08-10 21:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by bim1960 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to get rich... hang in there... if he is a lousy business man and lives like trailer trash, then dump him.
What is the big picture here, starting a new co., or is he just a lousy boss, if he is a lousy boss, manager, business man he needs to up his bids to make more $ so he can work less..
He is stuck in a rut and he can't get out. Let him know he is hurting his relationship, his health and a poor way to live a life.
He needs to seek help, don't know what he does but have him look at others who were succesfull in this same type of business and get some pointers. 24/7 will kill a guy etc..
2006-08-10 20:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, this isn;t any kind of a relationship if he doesn't have 5 minutes for you. owning your own business is complicated, but if he has staff, he has no excuse.
have a long talk with him. tell him if he can't find a place in his life for you, you will quit holding his place in your life for him and move on. if his staff is always going off and leaving him with the work, he needs to lay down the law and see that they work the time they were hired to work, or else get better staff. if he can't see you after his staff gets off work, then make time to see each other while his staff is around.
give him some time to organize himself, his schedule and his staff and if things don't improve, dump him and move on.
2006-08-10 20:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Number one go and join his work , share his work load , if really love him & intrested.
Second choice is te forget about him and find another man .
See he is a career minded and establishing himself as a successful person , but natural ,he has to be on his toe , right time to stand with him and help him , at least you will be with him every day .
2006-08-10 20:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it makes it all the better when you do have time together. all the waiting is worth it if you really this guy. and the making up time would be wonderful. the best things are worth waiting for. more tips about dating on this site
2006-08-10 20:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as a guy, you just need to tell him. sit him down and explain what is going on. guys are dumb and we need to be told the problem up front. tell him you love him and tell him that you are trying, just explain that you need him! your not asking him to quit but to work work around you. being with you should be number one with him.
2006-08-10 21:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not getting what you want.
What you want is very reasonable, healthy and normal.
His work behavior is way out of balance.
Right.
Now decide.
2006-08-10 20:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by daniel a 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about this, let him know how you feel, if he doesn't change his busy ways then move on, and tell him that that is what you are thinking of doing
2006-08-10 20:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should move on sweetie. People make time when they are interested.
2006-08-10 21:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant come to you, you should go to him! Dont ever give up on the one you love, you might regret it later!
2006-08-10 20:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋