do you believe in true friendship between opposite sex?

Question

i used to , but now it seems those guys who befriended me always want more than just a friend

i only had two of guy friends recently, both had given me hints that they want to be my boyfriends, i'm absolutely disgusted!

what do you think??

Answer 1

i think people of the opposite sex only become friends because of the initial physical attraction, when i was younger i thought guys were my "friends" but always found out later they liked me more than a friend. In a girls mind, she may only want to be friends, but most guys are only trying to get in your pants.

Answer 2

I think it's possible.. I've been good friends with this girl whom i met through the net for about 4 years now. We've been through loads together. For example, our individual relationship problems, thoughts on life n all.. it sounds really fictional or even movie-like. But the fact is.. we never ever had any romantic feelings fo each other.. maybe it's because the both of us are as ugly as hell? Haha.. i don't know man. For the record.. i have a girlfriend and she has had her fair share of boyfriends. And we do practice a limitation to our interactions. We've never met up late at night and talked over a couple of beers...like in those damn movies. Nor has she cried over my shoulder.. it's just.. a normal friendship. But it's been quite long, i guess i can call it a good and true friendship.

Answer 3

I have had a lot of guys that were friends, and they all "turned" on me sooner or later, making the friendship awkward. Eventually, I had to stop being close friends with them since my feeling were not the same.
I don't think guys have the switch in their head that they can flip to friends only. Once they spend so much time with a female their feelings begin to evolve. Unless they are gay.....those are the best guy friends to have. Never have to worry about the feelings changing.

Answer 4

Not every boy is like that. Every boy is different just give them a chance. But if u want to be sure that no guy friends will want to go out with u dress real geeky and b a major turn off.

Answer 5

Absolutely..... Have lots of them and sometimes, they are even better than some of the girl friends I have.

And yes, sometimes there could be attraction but its always a case of too big a risk to fall in love....and lose the friendship.

Just keep looking.

Answer 6

Yes i do believe........I have male friends who don't like me in that way and vice versa but i also have a really good friend who did want more but got over it aft i told him in the nicest possible way that i didnt want anything more just to be friends......He was cool about it and we are still great friends and i was actually the matron of honor at his wedding earlier this year.....

Answer 7

Yes I do because I have friends that are guys that have never liked me, and I have friends that have liked me but got over it and want nothing more but a friendship.

Answer 8

specific - maximum unquestionably everyone seems to be affaid to enable their extra suited 0.5 have opposite intercourse friendships by using fact they're insecure of their relationship and think of they are going to be cheated on, existence is a probability stay it that way, enable them to have opposite intercourse friendships and have confidence them one hundred% its as much as them to do you incorrect, you will discover many new acquaintances with the aid of assembly up with those opposite intercourse friendships that they are in touch in.

Answer 9

i do... I've been best friends with this guy for 8 years and still surviving... And guez what, we used to date before being bestfriends.. Not a big issue i guez..

Answer 10

dont be disgusted. they cant help but become close and feel more for you than just friends it happens alot. more on dating on this site