She is in the middle of splitting up with her very long term relationship. She calls me every day, almost. Yes, we are long distance. Her and I are still communicating totally great. Does she want to be with me? I think I know so but i think we both know that the timing has to be right and we both need our independence first so we can be free to be with one another, if it is meant to be. So that is the question. So tell me what you think.
2006-08-10 20:26:46 · 14 answers · asked by brad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea, we talked about everything you all mentioned. No rebound here. She appreciates me not putting the question to her right now because she can't commit to me like that but her calling me so much i think is one of her ways of telling me yes her and I are a possibility.
2006-08-10 20:38:00 · update #1
She might, but she may also really need your friendship now.
2006-08-10 20:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well that depends. if your know where both of you stand in the relationship - being just friends, then the answer to your question would be no. It is only human nature when we get our feelings hurt or our hearts broken that we find comfort in our friends- male or female. However, it's what we say or do with this friend while helping them thru the rough times that can cause the friendship to become much more. As you said, the timing has to be right and overall, she has to heal first before moving on.
2006-08-11 03:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs someone to talk to and also is probably trying to feel you out as a potential future relationship. She is on the rebound so be careful and listen to what she says. Usually when a person comes out of a long term relationship there may be a "back and forth" of breaking up and getting back together.
2006-08-11 03:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by lisa1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you talk about her split-up, or the possibility of you two getting together? She may be just talking to you in order to get through her ordeal. There's no way one of us can decide if she wants to be with you. Only she can tell you that, and if you are communicating totally great, she should be able to tell you that. I suggest that at some point in the very near future, you ask her.
2006-08-11 03:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is interested in you because me and my boyfriend got together basically the same way. over the phone because we lived a few hours away from each other. he knew how to listen so i couldn't help but fall for him. if you're a good listener i'm sure you've got that girl hooked. she probably couldn't resist you even though she's going through what she's going through with her current relationship. Girls are simple in certain ways, we become interested when guys show that they care about more than what they can get. Girls just need someone who'll listen and be there for them at any time and any place. they don't require the world to be given to them, just a little time. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-11 03:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she talks about when she calls you.
If she talks about her soon to be ex-bf, it can mean she wants to have another guy's point of view on the things that are happening in her relationship that her man is not too keen on explaining. If she talks about things that are not at all related to her relationship with her present man, then she digs you.
Best way to know is to ask her.
2006-08-11 03:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be careful with that one,because you could easily end up being the rebound guy and then the next thing you know,she's back with her boyfriend. Move with caution boy.
2006-08-11 03:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful of that type of relationship,you don't want to be rebound. Sounds like she does like you, but you wouldn't want a women messing around on you until you are completely broken up. I would tell her we could be friends for now, but you need time for yourself, time to heal.
2006-08-11 03:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by rockwithelmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know you should just call her at nights and no other than that she should get the point if not than later she will!!! good luck
2006-08-11 03:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by letty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that for the moment she wants your friendship
you should talk to her
be clear and ask her what she wants
i do talk to someone everyday(a boy) bt he's my best friend that all
good luck for the future
2006-08-11 03:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by shik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe...maybe not - She may just need to vent to somone who understands and doesn't judge, but it is a definite possibility. Give her time...what will be, will be!
2006-08-11 03:31:18 · answer #11 · answered by myANSWERS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋