Me and my bouyfriend are growing strong and serious. We have a wonderful relationship. Although it is mostly through the computer we will finally meet in December. I love him and he loves me but I intend to prove all my feelings when I meet him. I'm a mature young woman and sometimes even more than him, lol. Hate to admit.
Anyway, to us the age is not a problem at all. Most of the time we even forget there's an age difference at all. But, how do you feel about 15 and 19?
I believe long distance/ online relationships can work, with the right people involved. What do you think?
2006-08-10 19:49:26 · 24 answers · asked by Athena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and by the way when I say, "I intend to prove all my feelings..." I don't mean sex.
2006-08-10 19:51:09 · update #1
Oh yea, my family loves him too. My mom is totally fine with it.
2006-08-10 19:56:25 · update #2
We've seen each other on cameras...
2006-08-10 19:59:48 · update #3
Age should not come inbetwwen true love.
2006-08-10 20:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by jacob_advice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok for starters, I dont think there is anything wrong with the ages, because most girls are more mature than boys, so you two probably suited, but an online relationship, I dont know how anyone can have an online relationship, you must eventually met each other, and how far does he live away from you, I gather your telling us, it is a fair way away, well thats ok as long as both of you are preparted to make the effort to see each other. Please dont jump into this too quickly, as only seeing each other every now and then, is not enough to base a relationship on, but by all means, if you like this boy, I cant see a problem with it, it is up to the two of you. Good Luck to you both
2006-08-10 20:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
online relationships are ok if you know the person in real life to and are dating online because maybe you like it or because your bf/gf is far away...
and online relationships can work even if there is no reason not to date in real life. like you said: with the right people involved.
-about the 15 and 19 years old thing i think that the 15 years old is to young.
-and if the 15 years old is a girl and the 19 years old is a boy i think it is better than girl: 19 boy: 15
2006-08-10 20:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jane*One look is all it takes... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive been in a long distance relationship that lasted 3 years- ok, 2- he lived with me the remaining year! anyways- when you meet this guy you probably want to meet in a small group or in a public place the first time. who knows what hes like in person- ya know? just to be safe. by the time youre "legal" hell be 22. i think its a nice age difference. just be careful ok? if your parents find out and they disapprove they could have his arrested and you dont want that do you? take care!
2006-08-10 20:01:58 · answer #4 · answered by Candymoonangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the net can evoke some serious feelings in people because you're always seeing the side of someone that they want you to see. It isn't a true representation of a person...be careful! The age difference is huge at this age - it won't matter in 10 years time but it matters now.
2006-08-10 19:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by jbabee22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey "crazy chick"...tell you something...........LOOK You should to believe me
and i am so not joking... i am having an online relationship too and i am 15 and he is 18 (only difference) and i am the more mature one and he loves me and i love him too and i am going to go meet him in December too. and we have a really good relationship. the difference maybe that you may have seen him and i haven't seen him and we mostly talk through computers.
and there is not going to be any s*x definitely. isn't this is sooooo amazing, (i am not joking), it maybe a coincidence but its so cool
2006-08-10 20:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I always thought that haveing a boyfriend you never met that he tells you he loves who . Even though that he has no idea what you look like . But most of all he knows your 15 and he's 19. He can get in alot of trouble if he dates a 15 year old . So not good.
2006-08-10 19:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, I think that age makes no difference when it comes to love. I also think that you dont have to see someone in order to fall inlove with them. But you need to be extra precautious since you've never met him. Get to know him better (meaning face2face!) Good luck girl! Hope everything works out for you.
2006-08-10 19:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by cuteangelshay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age dosnet really matter i guess compared to love.
but dont you think that this is a bit to young maybe you should wait a little
true answer from heart:
Love is all that matters, catherine zeta jones has a bigger age difference that her husband could be her dad.
love is all that really matter, you love him and want to be with him then go for it
2006-08-10 19:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think its a very bad idea. Not because its a big age gap but because one person is a minor and the other isnt. That could cause major problems especially if someones parents in the whole situation decide they dont like the relationship.
2006-08-10 19:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by druhill119 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
good gal, because long relationship online do works sometimes but be mature enough not to do something stupid you are going to regret it later. you are 15 theres lots of relationship ahead of youa nd you are going to find more. but take it easy , show your feeling and go for it as long as you will be careful it will wok out.
2006-08-10 19:54:47 · answer #11 · answered by tangind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋