I've met this girl about a month ago. She is average looking but I can instantly tell she was reaised with morals, respectable, polite, etc, etc. She is a full time college student 5 days a week and works 2 days full time on the weekends. Pretty crazy, I know.
I asked her point blank, "uou think you should be dating? i think your a bit too bz for it. "
She answered, " Let's see... how about monday? I'm free from 11:30-1:30. Need to be back to campus for a meeting at 2pm.
Like i said, I may be a busy person.. but i always make time for people."
We did end up going out on our first date 2 weeks later. I'm into the 3rd week and she is going on a trip to arizon from california for a few days because of her school club activity.
At this point, i'm a bit frustrated, 2 dates a month???
Is she for real?
2006-08-10 19:27:46 · 19 answers · asked by Guy w/ Answers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I like to add that she told our mutual friend at a social gathering that she thinks i'm cute/hot.
2006-08-10 19:41:52 · update #1
XXXXXXXXXXXXX Is this the kind of girl you can be happy with? She's already controlling you. It only get worse. Good luck XXXXXX
2006-08-10 19:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are the only one who knows how you feel about her. She could be the one. I'd hate to hear that you passed her up because you wanted more dates upfront. You know if she is worth waiting around for. She sounds like she has great morals and is trying to get her life headed in the right direction. She must think a lot of you to date you with such a busy schedule. Wouldn't you rather date her a few times a week and be able to spend the rest of your life with a level headed successful woman? Rather than date someone who has plenty of time on their hands now but won't later when they are pulling a double shift at McDonald's? You decide if she is for real. Patients, patients, patients. Good luck and God bless!
2006-08-10 19:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be ready to settle down with one person until she completes her educational and/or career goals. Yes, She is for real. Sometimes wives make better mates when they can handle some responsibility on their own instead of being totally dependent and of no help to their husbands. That is also a reality. If you think she is worth it, BE THERE and on time.
2006-08-10 19:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what do you want in a woman? Do you want someone that is driven to succeed or someone so caught up in men that she doesn't know if she is coming or going? I think it was very considerate that even though she knows she is extremely busy, she still found time that she problem did not have to go out with you. You have to make the choice because you are the one that picked her.
2006-08-10 19:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday she will probably have a super job and she is exploring every thing that she can. Wish I had been more like her. You were lucky to have had time with her but if you want more time with someone maybe you should tell her that and let her go do her thing. Good luck
2006-08-10 19:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she's for real. Not everyone's lives revolve around dating or socializing. Some people are truly in it for learning and experiencing what they can while they're young. If you don't like it, you may want to find someone who has more "dating time" to spare.
2006-08-10 19:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Oh no 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she could be for real- haha seriously shes in school right now thats why shes their, so if shes busy doing that then its not really that surprising. but she could just be trying to take it slow- im sure if you all actually got more serious she could squeeze in more time for you. maybe her parents raised her to be overly into things and concentrate on ambitions very carefully.
just tell her- i want to spend more time with you because i really like you. but if you are too busy to be in a relationship that makes me feel like this is not going anywhere....
2006-08-10 19:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Go out with her when it's convenient for both of you. Meanwhile, look for other people to hang out with. She's not a keeper right now but things could change.
2006-08-10 19:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Randy Marsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously your thinking about her way, way more than the time shes giving you, and its not worth that. I know you like her, but at a college level, really, could you see yourself being with her in the future?
think about where you are investing your time.
2006-08-10 19:34:00 · answer #9 · answered by henry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find ur self a girlfriend not a ***** k u need a girl that's only 4 u not the whole world oh well good luck
2006-08-18 14:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you but she is busy .tell her to make a bit more time for you.nd when she does become so irresistable that she cant live without seeing you more often
2006-08-10 19:33:45 · answer #11 · answered by sassybiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋