Well a few details Belarus. Radioactive (Heard of Chernobyl?) Somewhere between Ukraine and Russia. Average income is around $250 a month. Rent I hear is $80 a month. She has a full scholarship for school there. I have my own painting business here in the US. I figured I could do the same there maybe. Big language barrier. She has been working here as waitress on a work visa and makes more than her mother back home.
Currently her work VISA will expire at the end of August and she seems determined to go home.
2006-08-10 19:06:18 · 3 answers · asked by zzzaaakkk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, Belorus is not radioactive. People live in Kiev which is 40 minutes away from Chernobyl and are still alive and healthy. Don't say whatever you don't know from your PERSONAL experience. If you like her, go for it - go see her and if everything works out - bring her with you. You can always give her a fiancee visa, which is only good for 90 days and at the end of that time you would either have to get married or she will have to go back. It will be up to you both...
2006-08-13 03:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Olga M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude.................................................
What the hell are thinking? Take it from me, what you want to do is serious... and a 19 year old girl doesn't even know what the definition of serious is. Trust me.... i'm 36 & my girl is 20... And I am stupid... If she has not tried to figure out a way to stay here, then it means that she does not like you enough to try.
I bet her family doesn't know you exist... (sorry, just a gut feeling)
Oh yeah, when she dumps you in a few years for some guy that is not OLD & BORING (like you & me) you'll say to yourself over & over again,
"Why the **** am I in Russia"?
Grow your business & your life here dude. No matter what other responses you get, you know that this is the best one...
Good Luck...
2006-08-10 19:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by warscoob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her to marry you if u love her. If no, let her go. the age difference shows that she may not be mature at this age. Better wait and watch and let her grow up. May be you too ll find someone else
2006-08-10 19:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by peter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋