I'm a girl and he's a boy, everyone makes fun of him. He is very unconfidant. He also likes me.
2006-08-10 18:55:17 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
You're a good friend for not wanting to hurt his feelings.
Next time he says that, just tell him "Well, I like you for who you are and it doesn't matter to me if you're fat or skinny, tall or short. I see your heart, not your body. But if you want to get slimmer, do you want me to help you try & lose weight?" If he wants to, go for walks with him until he builds up stamina enough to jog, swim or ride bikes. Gradually build up to more intense sports. Good luck to both of you! : )
2006-08-10 19:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mary* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it rather depends. is your friend likely to become violent? don't tell him he's fat, unless you're moving away. quickly. if he truly wants to know, and is open to criticism, tell him that YOU think he's fat (different people have different standards). do you like him? if so, it may not matter if he's fat. does ANYONE like 'im? ditto. some folx LOVE fat people (hard to believe, but true). otherwise, tell 'im he can exercise and eat right, or, if he's got some money lying about the place, get plastic surgery, and all will be well!
2006-08-10 19:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by altgrave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend you will tell him he is fat. Offer your help and support on helping him loose some weight. Maybe start going on walks with him for exercise. He will soon be more confident once he is happier with his body image. good luck!
2006-08-10 19:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that **** is annoying.. i have a friend who does this.. she complains about being fat.. and says you're skinnier than me so i tell the ***** DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.. they just wnat u to disagree and say "no you're not " blah blah blah when in reality u know they are,.. and they know they are so tell them to hop on a treadmill and set aside the twinkies seriously this **** pisses me off i used to be overweight then i started caring and now i look good and feel better about myself..
sry to sound mean but sometimes people need to hear the truth to change themselves for the better!
2006-08-10 19:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellif hes fat say yes u r so what can we WE do about it ...... if u want to help himhelp him if he doesnt wantto help himself well what cna u do . support him perhaps start walking or and exercise regime with him .. u can be sensitive but having a friend whos honest and wants to help is more than afriend who just says no urnot ......... and if he doesntmind being fat well lots of ladies like a bigger guy . .
2006-08-10 19:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him nicely that as his friend you think he should try to lose some weight for his health and self-essteem. honesty is always (almost)best. in this case it is best for him to lose weight so be a friend and maybe you could work out with him or walk together or do something active.
2006-08-10 19:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he is unhappy with how he looks, it is in his control to change things. Remind him that looks aren't everything, but he needs to get to a place where he feels comfortable with himself. He's lucky to have a compassionate friend like you.
2006-08-10 19:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by meltee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he thinks this way about himself that he should join a gym and start working out!!
2006-08-10 19:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats up AManda im a new user and i was wondering if i can spend more time with you
2006-08-10 19:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by terryloc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soo tell him to loose
weight
us houdl looose together
rather
2006-08-10 19:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by lef guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋