As a MAN, I am offended by this... Men: what makes you think you have a right to speak out against abortion?

Question

First of all, You're a MAN. Don't think you have a right to speak out against abortion, or criticise a woman who has had an abortion; Once again, You are a MAN. Do you have a VAGINA? Do you have a UTERUS? Do you have a MENSTRUAL PERIOD? Do you know how it feels to be a woman, and to get pregnant? NO, YOU DON'T.

leave women alone! you dont know how it is to be a woman.
i would never criticise a lady who got an abortion because i will never experience something even close to that, so i will never really know how it is.

even if i WERE a WOMAN, i would NEVER criticise a lady who got an abortion because its none of my damn business. abortion is not murder, get over it SUCKERS! even if abortion were murder, why dont you worry about better things that actually affect you? worry about the LIVING BEINGS you are MURDERING! stop eating and wearing ANIMALS, murderers!Stop killing BUGS, murderers! Stop supporting wars killing REAL CHILDREN, murderers!

I support women and their right to choose!

WHO CARES IF THE BABY IS YOURS, TOO. YES YOU HELPED MAKE IT BUT ARE YOU THE ONE CARRYING IT?

ALSO, ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS:

IF YOU'RE PRO-LIFE, WHY DO YOU EAT MEAT, AND WEAR FUR?

DONT FEED ME WITH YOUR BIBLE BULL CRAP SAYING "ANIMALS DONT HAVE SOULS".
WELL CAN THEY FEEL PAIN? YES, THEY CERTAINLY CAN! THEY CAN FEEL MORE PAIN AND ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANY FETUS OR EMBRYO.

HOW CAN YOU CARELESSLY STEP ON INNOCENT BUGS THAT DID NOTHING TO YOU AND KILL FLIES AND OTHER BUGS WHICH ALSO DID NOTHING TO YOU?

THATS NOT PROLIFE

ANSWER THIS QUESTION TOO:

MOST PRO-LIFERS ARE CONSERVATIVE REPUBLICANS WHO SUPPORT THE WAR.
...HOW THE HELL CAN YOU SUPPORT A WAR KILLING THOUSANDS OF REAL, INNOCENT CHILDREN?

YOU ARE ALL CONTRADICTORY! GET A LIFE AND GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT. STOP USING GOD OR THE BIBLE IN YOUR ARGUMENTS. USE YOUR BRAIN FOR ONCE.

One of the girls who answered below made a good point:

"I totally agree. people say abortion is robbing something of its life, but think about it - if a girl gets an abortion, it means she never planned on having the child in the first place. isn't that denying something of its life as well? it's like, if you get an abortion you're just fixing the mistake that was made in the plan to already not have a child. if someone thinks abortion is so wrong and they have protected sex, they're a hypocrite.

protected sex and abortion bring about the same thing. you're having sex, but preventing a baby from being born"

"animals are here for us to eat whether you like it or not". That is the stupidest thing i've heard in a while.

Animals are here for us to eat says who? "God"?
You should start using your own brain.
ANIMALS CAN F*CKING FEEL PAIN, MORE PAIN THAN ANY EMBRYO OR FETUS CAN. YOU THINK IT'S FAIR TO LET THEM SUFFER?

I am a strict vegetarian, and i think it is stupid of all of you to say something like that. you have no proof that animals are here to be eaten. What is your proof, the bible? You cant justify something with the bible!!!!
The animals can feel pain, get over it. It's KILLING.

Answer 1

Honey, I believe you stole MY argument. I WROTE THAT, except you left out some parts:

"First of all, You're a MAN. Don't think you have a right to speak out against abortion, or criticise a woman who has had an abortion; Once again, You are a MAN. Do you have a VAGINA? Do you have a UTERUS? Do you have a MENSTRUAL PERIOD? Do you know how it feels to be a woman, and to get pregnant? NO, YOU DON'T.

Second of all, pro-lifers can NEVER make an argument about abortion without mentioning "God". Why don't you, for once, use your own brain as opposed to letting religion guide you through life? Just so you know, there is NO proof of "God", therefore EVERYTHING you say relevant to "God", or the Bible is FICTIONAL. Religion is contradictory, anyhow. The bible says EVERYONE is born out of sin, therefore how are fetuses "innocent"? The whole bible is a huge contradiction that only an uneducated, gullible FOOL would believe.

Don't tell me what to do with my body. Are you such a loser that you haven't anything better to do than harass people over the internet? Worry about your own body.
I can have abortions if I want, and there is NOTHING you can do to stop me. Even if abortions were illegal, people would STILL get them; in fact, If abortions were illegal, the numbers of abortions performed daily would DOUBLE! There is NOTHING you and your pathetic, pro-life, brainwashed, uneducated, bible freak friends can do about it. MY body, MY life, MY business, MY fetus, MY choife! Get over it!"
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I love you.

Answer 2

I found this on a other site..
Abortion - the termination of a pregnancy.
Dilitation and Extraction, D&X, (Partial Birth Abortion) - the baby is delivered feet first. The head is left inside the birth canal. A sharp instrument is used to puncture the rear of the skull at the base and the brains are sucked out. Once dead, the baby is fully delivered.
Dilatation & Curettage (D&C) - Abortive procedure where the abortionists inserts a curved knife into the placenta and cuts the baby up into pieces before it is suctioned out. Done in the first trimester.
Dilatation & Evacuation - An abortive procedure where an abortionist inserts a pliers-like instrument into the uterus. The abortionist then grabs whatever part of the baby it comes in contact with. Then, by twisting and pulling, the baby is dismembered, killed, and pulled from the womb.
Mifepristone or Mifeprex (RU-486) - a pill taken after conception that stops the absorption of Progesterone, a hormone necessary for sustaining pregnancy. Taken with misoprostol that causes the uterus to contract and eject the newly conceived baby.
Partial Birth Abortion - An abortive method where all the baby is delivered except the head. With its body outside of the vaginal canal, the doctor then uses a sharp instrument to pierce the back of the skull of the baby and scramble the brains, killing it. Then the baby is fully delivered.
Pregnancy Reduction - An abortive method of reducing the number of babies in the womb (twins, triplets, etc.) by injecting a poison into the heart of one or more of the babies while still in the womb.
Saline Amniocentesis - An abortive method where a highly concentrated salt solution is injected into the placenta. The baby takes the salt into the lungs as well as swallowing it. After more than an hour, the baby dies and the mother delivers the body a day or two later.

Answer 3

I completely agree with supporting womens right to choose. I support her right to choose if she wants to have sex. After that there is no choice. I cant have kids. I have looked into adopting a baby and do you know how long it would take for me to adopt a baby.... years.... so personally i think what the hell is wrong with you....i want your baby because i cant have one. I am not some crazy person i could give that child a great life...good schools a nice car when it turned 16 but you people sit here and say that this child will mess up there life...this child will take 9 months out of your life of what 60+ years.....as for men not having a say in the decison one of my best friends got a girl preganunt....he wanted the baby....with everything he had he wanted it...he begged her not to have an abortion and cried when she told him she was going to do it....lucky she changed her mind but still it devastated him.....to even think his child would be killed.....this issue does effect me....so why dont you stop and think about it before you speak see every angle

Answer 4

Abortion IS Murder. There are many reasons women have abortions. They can be rape victims, incest victims, to young to have babies, or what ever reason they have...

I thank you for saying what you are saying but I disagree what you say on when you say "abortion is not murder", when a life is created in the womb, it is a life, a Human Being created... a little life that has a heart beat and a soul. It is not the babies fault for that to happen. Embryo is a life growing in the womb. The moment that a life grows, is a life.

A sin is a sin. Murder is Murder. No buttering up about it. Thou Shalt not Kill is one of the ten commandments.


### So is a mosquito bit you, you won't hit it? Or a bee stinging you, you wont swipe it off you? If you get bit by a horsefly, you won't swat it ? PUHLEESSE!! Sheesh!!

Answer 5

OK slow down Men should have a choice in abortion it is there child too it takes two man come on now if they want the child and the women dint then when the child is born the child should automatically go to the father and the women should cut all her ties to that child because in the first place she did not want the child and it is murder any way to have an abortion and do even now how they do it go check it out for yourself on the web they tell you about it in detail. animals are here for us to eat wether u like or not. FIRST OF ALL dint call soldier baby killers DO ACTUALLY THINK THAT THEY LIKE TO DO THAT THEY HAVE TO WHEN A CHILD HAS A BOMB ON HIS CHEST AND THREATENS UR LIFE WHAT WOULD YOU and for the innocent children that don't do the bomb thing THE SOLDIER TRAY'S TO PROTECT THEM
for anther point on abortion what happens if all the mothers got one then what? where will our population be then? I Hear women who had abortions and talk bad about other women who drowned there kids in the bath tub so whats the difference there? to me nothing. there is adoption there are many families who would love to have kids but cant what ever happen to adoption put your children up instead of getting rid of them. even if they were conceived in a rap or whatever you can always put them up for adoption.

Answer 6

Thank you for your opinion, but opinions are like mouths: everyone has one.

As far as I am concerned, the only reasons why it would be okay for a woman to have an abortion would be in the case of rape or the life of the mother would be at serious risk should she carry the child to full term.

The ability to have an abortion has caused many women to have sex carelessly. They probably think something like this:

"I don't care if I get pregnant. Heck, I will just have the baby ripped out and continue my slutty lifestyle."

The abortion of a human is still murder. It is a human being. It can be identified as being human. Abortion is killing a human baby. That---is murder.

And what would you have said if YOU were a baby and found out your mother is going to have you ripped out and you will die before ever being born? I doubt you would support abortion then.

Answer 7

I agree with most of what you said. I personally don't believe in abortion, but it's not my right to tell someone else what they can do with their bodies. As far as animals being more important than fetus' I disagree, I love animals, but you can't compare the two. You talk about a fetus as if it were an inanimate object and not a life with a beating heart.

Answer 8

I totally agree. people say abortion is robbing something of its life, but think about it - if a girl gets an abortion, it means she never planned on having the child in the first place. isn't that denying something of its life as well? it's like, if you get an abortion you're just fixing the mistake that was made in the plan to already not have a child. if someone thinks abortion is so wrong and they have protected sex, they're a hypocrite.

protected sex and abortion bring about the same thing. you're having sex, but preventing a baby from being born

Answer 9

I do not criticize someone who has an abortion - I'm just immensely saddened. If you have had one and are feeling guilty, please seek some counseling.
And of course men have a say in abortion. They are also the parent-to-be and have right to know about that possibility. In contraception, there is no conception and therefore no child for whom to choose life. Once conceived, there IS a child.
The choice needs to come before conception or pregnancy -- Please choose to use birth control!

Answer 10

Because you allowed a man to be the second 50% in making a child. So, he should have 50% of the say. If you have a problem with why the female needs to bare at a 100% then take it up with what ever God you feel created you.