can you help me get ove this feeling of depression i am having right now life is too hard and i can not go on much longer please help me now
shelley
2006-08-10 18:54:10 · 29 answers · asked by dreyer_michelle 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes it's bad to take your own life. First off why do you feel depressed. Life is hard for everyone We must learn to cope with life and meet it half way. Do you have someone to talk to that is near you at this time. family or friend, church. Tomorrow will bring in a new day and you will see it differently.
2006-08-10 19:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Taking your own life is something that is perment and depression can be taken care of. If you take your own life the people around you will suffer and I don't know how you feel about your friends and family but I know I wouldn't want to make their lives harder. You can call a help hotline, they're easy enough to look up on the web. I'm not sure what you're going through in your life right now but I'm bet there is a way that it can be taken care of with out taking your own life. Go talk to a friend or someone you trust.
2006-08-11 02:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by gogoblackandgold3726 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just the way I did only a few months ago.I have the scars to prove it.I know the exact feeling of thinking there is no way out.You can't find freedom.You just want "go asleep forever".You feel completely alone.But the answer is there is a way out & you are certainly under no cirrcumstances alone because I am right here for you.I know what your going through.Your not going to beleive me when I tell you this but things will get better.You have already made the biggest step & that was seeking help.I'm very concerned because I have also lost a dear friend the same way.Please e-mail me when ever you need to talk.Ladyjoanne@sbcglobal.net.Someone is here for you.I promise I will listen & I will help you.Sometimes its easier to talk to strangers than a loved one.So try counciling.It took me 4 years to go because I saw it as a failer on my part.But the truth is it was the best thing I ever did.Because I'm alive today & I'm here to help you.Please e-mail me.
2006-08-11 02:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by princess joanne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never the answer and it is wrong no matter what. Maybe more communication is what you need. Try going on more forums and talking to people with similar interests or talk to some friends. Life may be hard, but it will eventually get easy. People don't want to go on living because they don't know if tomarrow will be good or bad, but the thing is if you kill yourself you will never know. I wonder sometimes when I first wake up if it is really worth going to school if I just have to do the same thing over again, but, you, it is worth it, because I'm alive. I have so many moments left and so do you.
We are all here for you. So don't kill yourself.Ever.
2006-08-11 02:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Rizwan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No . I know life is hard for everybody right now . We all feel depressed. But it's no reason at all to take your own life . Think about your family and friends who will be very hurt and who will miss you when you are gone . My friend took her own life and we grew up together. We were like sisters . I was very hurt and angry . I cared so much about her . Think about all the pepole that your going to feel the same way I'm still feeling . Talk to someone in person how you feel . But please. Dont take your own life . Things will look up soon . You just got to keep on trying . I can tell you advice on not getting depressed. Help pepole with there needs. Be there for them . Give them advice and care for them . And if you do . You'll feel better about yourself . But mostly you'll feel better about other pepole who will care about you . Remember you always have friends and famliy with you . But most of all god.
2006-08-11 02:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what religion you are, what you believe in, and where you come from, everyone sometimes feel like you do. although you may be really depressed right now and ready just to throw it all away, think of all the good times youve had. ive contemplated suicide MANY MANY times and cut myself probably more times than that. after some point i realized it wasnt worth it because although there are days that are so bad and just so hard, you only have one chance in this world and to waste it all because of a few bad days isnt worth it. to use that bullet or those pills, is to say good bye to everyone you knew, loved, and hated. never to see them again and just be gone. no one knows if there is a Heaven or Hell ( i believe there is), but are you willing to find out. there is so much waiting for you out in this world, take charge of it. dont sit in a dark room and contemplate how much blood you want to run on the floor.
i hope you feel better shelley. there are so many numbers and friends who you can talk to. and if not, then just write it, draw it out. listen to music. vent. cry. scream. anything, but dont kill the most precious thing there is - your life.
2006-08-11 02:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's kind of like looking toward the light at the end of a tunnel. no, not death. happiness. you just have to remember that it's not always going to be this way. someday things will be good again. suicide is just an escape. it's like when things get too hard you just opt out. when your deression is over, you'll look back on it and wonder why you ever thought such things. just keep looking for the silver lining, i'm sure it's in there somewhere. and even if it's bearly visible through the dark clouds, just remember that it's there. never give up hope.
2006-08-11 02:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by gertie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all feel the way you do right now.Do not feel like you are the only one in the world that feels this way.Pray to God and sing to God when you feel blue and hopeless. The other day I heard a preacher talking on the radio;Things that turn out wrong, like one circumstance after another, like everything is fighting you and everyone you thought of as friends turned out to be foes to hurt you.It is actually God's plan because the road you were on was not the destination ment for your life.Some people think they are in total control and they are fools to believe that theory. God is in control and you must not be selfish and immature to end your life because what you thought was great was only a figment of your immagination and hang in there the best is yet to come. Work with God not against him.
2006-08-11 02:13:18 · answer #8 · answered by ate up 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are people in 3rd world countries who die everyday and its not even by their own choice. Just think about that before you do something.
Just think about how fortunate you are to have a life where you aren't getting shot or dying of AIDS. You have control over you life whether you believe it or not and you can get over everything that is bringing you down.
You should also talk to your local priest for help and prayer as well as calling a counselor.
2006-08-11 04:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide is a selfish act .when people do this they dont consider those they leave be hind imagine how your mother would feel knowing you took your own life .
i deal with depresion all to often ,every now and then I have to take some time to think of all the good in my life it helps to get through the down times
seek some help and remember tomarow could be your day
2006-08-11 02:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by giantdwarfbat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋