2006-08-10 18:40:26 · 29 answers · asked by chris r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her and tell her she's a whore for sleeping with someone else.
2006-08-10 18:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do some serious soul searching, does it really matter? do u not love her enough 2 look at the baby as an extension of her? can u not get past what ever the circumstances were under which she got pregnant? r u ready 2 b a daddy? r u ready 2 comit 2 the baby (if u stay 4 a while then u will become attached and b there 4 the baby 4 the rest of its life if ur a real man, even if ur not with the mom 4ever)?
ask ur self these questions, explain 2 the gf that u need time 2 think and even if u cant b with her, maybe theres a chance u can give her moral support as just a friend?
some things 2 think about
good luck with the whole deal.
2006-08-10 18:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know for sure that it isn't yours? the only way to know for sure is if you haven't had sex with her. If you've had sex with her, then it is possible that the baby is yours.
Let her know that you question if the baby is your or not,that you want a DNA test to erase any doubt. If she can get past that, then if you love her stick around, and try to be involved, after all the baby could be yours, you wouldn't want to miss out on your baby right. If the baby turns out to not be yours, then consider it as a good thing you did, not leaving this girl to be alone in the pregnancy. there is nothing saying that you have to claim paternity at the hospital or anything, try just being her friend during the pregnancy-that is what she really needs.
2006-08-10 18:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by whatelks67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "know for sure" it's not yours unless you absolutely did not have sex with her. At all.
Or if you've been away for the last 9 months. Or if you don't have a penis. Don't be one of those stupid guys that tries to take the easy way out by saying the baby just couldn't be his, usually it is turns out... Be there for her if there's even a chance, like someone else said - have the paternity test and you may be surprised. If u ditch her and miss out on everything then find out later that is your child you just can't get that time back and you'll be sorry.
2006-08-10 18:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by BoMBSheLL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could tell her your thoughts but that may not go so well. you could be supportive of her while she is pregnant and then have a paternity test. i think you can get a paternity test when pregnant (but im not sure if that is just on the tv). also i think that you should really consider the fact that you may also just be scared to be a father and thinking that it could someone else's is easier to deal with than taking on the responsibilty of being a father. be very careful whatever you decide to do because their is alot at stake.
2006-08-10 18:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how do you know for sure its not yours?
If it really isn't yours, then you need to ask yourself a few questions.
First question you need to ask is can you forgive her for cheating. if you can't then break it off. if you can ask yourself the next question.
Can you raise someone else's child and treat it as your own.? if not then break it off, cuz thats a bad situtation for all. if you can then you need to figure out if you really want all that responsibility.
you should also know that if you allow your name to be on the birth certificate, even if you are not biologically a parent, you are financially responsible according to the law, which means she can go to court and force you to pay child support. good luck
2006-08-10 18:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by aliandsean@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick by her side until d baby is born show her love when d baby is born take him or her for a DNA test when i comes out negative then u dump her.
2006-08-10 19:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does it matter bro???????????
ask yoursel this do you love your girlfriend?
it's all in your hands bro. what u do now will not only be your destiny, but the child's n mother's as well.
no matter who the father is i'm sure he is a prick. but if u could take up the resposility u will be a better father n husband to your girl.
in time your gril will realise that u r a tru gem.
2006-08-10 18:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by stardust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility! If you're with her, support her. If the baby is yours or not. Take a blood test to be positive. You can be a father figure either way.
2006-08-10 18:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by missy146833 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away
Unless you truely love her then that is a hard one.
Did she get pregnant whilst with you? Then the question is does she really love you or is she just looking for the nearest sucker?
Sorry, but is she loved you she wouldnt have had sex with another guy!
2006-08-10 18:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and say this is hard but i know the baby is not mine. if she argues with you, tell her to file for the DNA test at the court house, doctor, talk show, or anywhere that does DNA tests. Let her pay for it.
2006-08-10 18:45:45 · answer #11 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋