my girlfriend who lives with me . shes been asking me if its ok if she trades her car in.i kept saying no i dont think its a bad car you have and she kept pressing me asking me every week. i would get very upset but i wound up telling her it is her money and she said she was gonna buy one before i meet her . when she was living alone .she pressed theis issue . she only lives 7 miles from her job.i meet this lady and things moved fast and she moved in with me. now she blames me for that .we talked to her for hours. i only only only wanted to have her see things my way. i am so upset .i want to end the relationship, i have told her to move 20 times. yesterday i told her it is her money and if mine and her relationshop ended she is able of paying her bills . thats what she told me, so i wanted to tell it back to her. well she bought a 2007 Dodge eclipse . she did it anyways.im very confussed mad angry .i do feel different. we have only been together 1month.please share.God bless you.
2006-08-10 18:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe that you have a problem with yourself... that you like to have your cake and eat it too! well, you are just human, and you cannot!
even if you are together, but if you are not married legally, it is still her money/ car... and you cannot do anything, because it is not yours.
then why do you go living in with someone, if you are still involve with another??? this is suspicious!!! she should NOT TRUST you in the first place! and what relationship, you just lived in with another woman??? hello???
in other words, there is no free handouts, if you like a car, you have to work for it!
2006-08-10 18:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As per my experience , you two are together due to fate and karma , no compatibility in thinking and mental level , if you want to live in peace for ever say good bye to her , after discussing with her . She is very dominating and head strong , initially you may manage some time , but later it will be very difficult for you to control her movements , better part now before its too late and beyond repair , at least you two will see eye to eye later .
2006-08-10 18:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why she is asking you anything. It is, as you say, her money. If she wants to trade her car in, it's up to her. Why are you angry? It's nothing to do with you what she does with her money.
2006-08-10 18:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is not a matter of trust. From the way i see it, you two need to talk about this matter thoroughly. Don't do things rashly.
2006-08-10 18:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by lifesw33tmyst3ry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just let go of the past,either your gonna trust or not.
2006-08-10 18:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kindashy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋