I was just about to go to sleep when i searched my boyfriends wallet and Found?

Question

I found 2 girls phone numbers so what should i do at this time he is sleep should i call the girls or should i wake him up.

Answer 1

wake him up. you won't be able to sleep if you waiti until the morning. don't call the girls, that's just crazy. your bf is the one to blame because HE is the one that's in your relationship not those girls.

Answer 2

Okay...
In dealing with anything you have to first rid yourself of "irrational thinking patterns."
A. Automatically assuming / irrational jealousy can lead things the wrong way. DON'T ASSUME. Who knows really, whose numbers those are. They could be a lover, maybe not. Maybe they are his friends.
B. DON'T PANIC, panic is what leads you to searching the wallet in the first place. Geeze girl, that's low and cold. It's his wallet, would you want him snooping through your purse, even if you were interested in someone else? Nope, didn't think so, so why are you treating him differently than you'd want to be treated?
and C. Ask him. Yeah, I know, Girls have good intuition. Butt they also have a keen knack for SUSPECTING stuff, without ever trying to find out the truth by doing something most guys would rather you do. Don't tell him, that you found the #'s. But instead be sly about it, "Say, have you made any new friends over lately. I was thinking about renting some movies on Saturday, and just thought that we could have some people over." Or something like that.
Many guys are trustworhy enough to say "Yeah, I met a gal named Amanda. She seems pretty cool. I'll call her over." That's not a love connection, that's just a friendship bond.
Both girls and Guys do have a tendency to use irrational jealousy! To the point it destroys relationships big key!

Answer 3

How do you know the telephone numbers are recent? How long have you been with your boyfriend? Why are you searching his wallet, unless of course you already suspect that he is a cheater or a player and if he is either, then out with the old and in with the new. But I would never tell him why, I'd just leave. Let him wonder why he lost you! Tell him his penis is too small or something to bruise his ego. :)

Answer 4

First I would start by boiling some water...lol just kidding!!
WoW!!...I can imagine how you feel right now. Why are men like this?? ARRR!!..... I don't think I would want him explaining anything to me, because he’s not going to come all the way clean and it will only make you more upset!! Honestly I would just get my things and leave quietly. You need time to re group and think about how to deal with this situation. If you wake him up now it will escalate into a huge fight and that's not what you want. I know you’re temped to call these girls, but 4 what??.... To find out he is cheating, and then what?? Are you prepared to leave him?? It's a waste of time and everything your about to say to them you should be saying it to your boyfriend. He is the one supposed to be "committed" to you, Not these women. He could have told them anything. Just think if it's not with these girls it will be with someone else and you can’t go around cussing and slapping every woman you see!! So don't sweat it!! Make an example of him, let him know you don't tolerate this type of behavior and this is one of those hard lessons (leave him, I know not what you want 2 hear)!! These men need to learn; (repeat it with me) “You Can NOT!!! Have Your Cake and Eat It Too!!” That's what's wrong with them now!! They are soooo spoiled to this type of treatment, because it's always been accepted by both parties. Then when he is sick of the both of you, he will throw you to the side like trash. Then happily move on to another younger, dumber, easier, group of girls. If you have been down this road before, then you can clearly see the "Dark Light" at the end of the tunnel. Relationships like this are sooo stressful not to mention a waste of time!! If he wants to play let him, just don't be apart of his cesspool!!!

Be Blessed!!

Answer 5

I would wait until morning and confront him about it. What gave you the idea to search his wallet in the first place. (I have done it before too) Sometimes I guess it is pure curiosity. I would call them also not tonight or wait until tomorrow and call the numbers and find out where and when they met and let her know that you are his girlfriend. Then confront him with the issue depending upon what you find out while you were investigating. Good Luck keep me posted on this one!

Answer 6

First, you must not trust your boyfriend all that much or you wouldn't have gone through his wallet.

Second, if you're at his place (or you share a place), look through his Caller ID (since you obviously don't have a problem with snooping) to see if he's called them.

Third, don't wake him up. It could be for no reason at all- maybe some girls wrote them down and gave them to him at a restaurant, and he stuffed them in his wallet and hasn't thought about them since. Ask him about it in the morning.

Nighty-night!

Answer 7

FIrst off y did you look in his wallet thats a sign of mistrust. It could just be a huge misunderstanding. Throw away the numbers and if he says something look clueless and ask y. Do cause confrination

Answer 8

First of all, why were you in his wallet? Not being judgemental, just asking. Second of all, do you trust him? Has there been any indication that he is going to do something with them ? Before you go down a potentially destructive path, think long and hard about it. If your fears turn out to be unfounded, he might still be upset that you don't trust him.

Answer 9

You looked through his wallet.

You have serious trust issues with this relationship.

Either he has done something before to warrant it. Or you are insecure in a major way. I suggest you talk with him about your trust issues. Leaving the search and seizure on your part out of it. If you can't work it out I suggest you break up with him.

Answer 10

First of all if you feel like you need to check his pockets then obviously there's already a trust issue. And if foe some reason like you were doing laundry and you were cleaning them out before you washed them then I'd just let him get his rest and I would call the numbers and just be polite when you talk to them you know they wouldn't have any reason to lie and like your boyfriend he probably has his lies memorized, Good luck.

Answer 11

Call them first find out how he got them. Sometimes guys just accept them when a girl give it to them.. cause saying no takes away there pride but most time they are the ones who ask. So call them. Then kick him somewhere and wake his *** up.