What does it say about the condition of the relationship and commitment (if any)?
Just wanted your opinion
2006-08-10 17:30:59 · 21 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boredom
Lack of respect
Loss of interest
2006-08-10 17:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who is doing the cheating is weak because they cannot consider the feelings of another human being as equal as theirs. Whether or not another person 'drove' someone to cheat is irrelevant because if anyone is unhappy in a relationship they need to end it. Communication is the key and you have to be mature enough to have it to be in a real relationship. Otherwise you don't carry the esteem to treat other people with dignity
2006-08-11 00:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by blueberry-yum-yum! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say that there is something lacking in the relationship. It doesn't exactly mean in some instances that the cheater is not happy in the relationship that they are in, just not "complete" so to say. And then, you have those who always want more, and some who can't explain why they cheat.
2006-08-11 00:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because a person is bored or needs more attention in there relationship.
Generally a cheater loves their spouse emotionally, but is lacking in the physical department. Mostly by middle age many men loose loose their desire. Whereas a women in her 30's is wondering if she is still attractive and often will go out just to see if she can draw attention from men or younger men. After that, it may go further.
2006-08-11 00:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Eldude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says one person has a big problem with honesty in the most intimate of relationships. If you can't trust them to be faithful to you, can you trust them at all? Better yet, what does it say about the person who stays knowing the other partner is cheating? They have no respect for themselves? They are so desperate for love they will accept it with total humilation?
2006-08-11 00:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat, this is the message you're sending:
"I'm an idiot. I have no respect for my partner or our relationship. I am only interested in pleasing myself. I am what is important. Did I mention I'm an idiot?"
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-08-11 00:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating shows signs of "deception" once that line has been crossed, it's sometimes really hard to prove to others that you are trustworthy, again!! The old saying still rings true: "Cheaters never win...!"
2006-08-11 00:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by brighteyez386 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you can't be trusted and always after different people. It's not a good message to someone's current relationship and their future one's.
2006-08-11 00:38:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ally C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sends a negative message. it means that whoever is cheating is not fulfilled enough by the person who is cheated, or the cheater is just really messed up...
2006-08-11 00:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by pish_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it would say relationship over. If anyone valued me and our relationship so little that they cheated, then that is one relationship not worth saving.
2006-08-11 00:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sarrah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It says that you are not meant to be together. It also says that the cheater is not happy in his/her relationship. Just my opinion.
2006-08-11 00:36:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋