2006-08-10 17:28:05 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
NO!! God made us male and female for a reason! That reason is so we can marry, have children, and ENJOY each other's company and bodies!!!
So get that idea out of your head. It's completely normal...and God approved!!!
2006-08-11 18:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by ashcatash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. If you are heterosexual, and I assume you are from the nature of your question, then it's perfectly natural to want to be with someone in a loving relationship.
Giving and receiving love is a basic human need, and something that all humans share. I am not necessarily talking about sex, though that enters into it, as well. The easiest way to both get and give a steady stream of love is to be in an exclusive relationship, so your desire to have a boyfriend or husband is completely normal. I would advise you, however, to go with boyfriends first for a while. There are a lot of men out there, and it's important to know what you are doing when you commit to a marriage. Practice dating and find out what you do and don't want in a man, rather than simply marrying the first one that comes along. Just as it's hard to know if your shoes fit right if you've only ever worn one pair of shoes, it's hard to know if a man is a person who you can build a life with if you've only ever really hung out with one man.
2006-08-10 17:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bronwen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You can read the bible from cover to cover but you cannot find anything which says that wanting a boyfriend or husband is a sin...
2006-08-10 17:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a sin to want a boyfriend or husband, but it would be wrong to push it to happen.
2006-08-10 17:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by BrAd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the least. If it was a sin to want then you would have no desire to find. This would end all lust there for ending life in general. NO more people getting busy is what I'm saying... turns into less children. LOL This however is not the case in this world. In fact we have over population.
2006-08-11 05:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some religions to lust and/or to covet is sinful, but when you really think about it it’s not sinful to want someone’s boyfriend or Husband. Things only get complicated when you act on that want….
2006-08-10 17:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by David D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. I want a husband, so I've been praying for him. The sin would take place if I decided to have casual sex until I get married.
2006-08-10 17:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be contrary to the Bible's teaching. God designed humans to procreate and to do so, you need a mate. God also set up the institution of marriage, so how could it be a sin to want something natural like that? It can enhance your life and help you to become a more rounded person.
2006-08-10 17:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by quarky2233 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know what a sin is, it's important to look into the Bible. The Bible talks about people getting married all the time, it's no sin, sex before marriage is though.
2006-08-10 17:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by tropical_sunrise1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its only a sin if you want saomeone elses husband or boyfriend.
Going under the commandemnt of " though shall not covet thy neighbors wife ( husband ) or goods."
2006-08-10 17:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define "want." It is a sin to covet your neighbor's wife, and I can't help but assume that it also applies to your neighbor's husband. As to another's boyfriend, let your conscience be your guide.
2006-08-10 17:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by keats27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋