ok im a gurl but trust me im 100% totally straight and my friend thts gay is a gurl her gf is alwayz accussing us of liking each other but i would never do tht ever !!! me and my friend r best friends ive known her for 6 yrs !! i luv her like a sis i j/ dont get y her gf would think like tht wht should i do ?!
2006-08-10 17:19:51 · 24 answers · asked by sexymexythaonly1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slap some senses into her
2006-08-10 17:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like her g/f is having trust issues and it is showing up as jealousy. If you and your friend spend a lot of time together and especially if you exclude the g/f from that time or conversations when the 3 of you are together, she is going to feel jealous.
The three of you need to sit down and talk, without interrupting each other and without judging, about your feelings and what it is that makes you feel the way you do.
It's possible the g/f could have had bad experiences in the past that she is allowing to color this relationship. That will take time and effort to overcome. It may be that she is jealous of your time together. Your friend can help in that area with explinations and perhaps spending more time at least for a while with her g/f. Whatever you decide communication is the key.
-Tannim
2006-08-10 17:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tannim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can or should do from my experience. My best friend is a guy, and he is like my brother. My ex-fiance' used to accuse us of being together too, but the problem didn't have anything to do with my friend and I. It's all about the insecurity and trust issues of your friends girlfriend. All you can really do is let your friend know that you will always be her friend and hope that things will change with her girlfriend and not between the two of you.
2006-08-10 17:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by brit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... you can just say to her that her lesbian partner (not gay) is just a friend to you and you only treat her as a sister. Just ask her if she has a sister, how does she treats her sister. Just remain calm and stand firm on your ground.
Another thing you can do is that when you sit, dont sit beside your friend but sit beside you friend's girl. This way, she would know that her "guy" is secured with her...
The best thing is that you can always like just treat both of them as equals and get to know both parties. This way there is no way that she can accuse you as being baised or trying to snatch her girl.
Cheers!
2006-08-10 17:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by THE ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. The problem is between your friend and her girlfriend. Let them work it out. Don't involve yourself in their relationship issues. If the girlfriend confronts you, tell her that if she has a problem in her relationship, then it's for the two of them to talk it out and you are not getting in the middle.
2006-08-10 17:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her g/f obviously has sum trust issues she needs 2 work on. You need to tell your friend to talk to her and if she can't understand your friendship then she needs to either move on or risk losing you as a friend because of the comments.
2006-08-10 17:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to dump the jealous gurlfriend and you need to try the bi lifestyle (best of both worlds). Besides, a lover that is ur best friend is perfect!
2006-08-10 17:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by not4u_2bad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore what's being said, and sooner or later, it'll stop. The more you protest, the more fuel you add to the fire.
2006-08-10 17:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by julielove327 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd ignore the girlfriend
and tell her to get a life
its just a thought
2006-08-10 17:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to include your friends girlfriend as much as possible. Sooner or later she will get over it or your friend will drop her.
2006-08-10 17:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that her gf is your best friend and that you have a bf (if u r dating @ the moment)
2006-08-10 17:23:42 · answer #11 · answered by Ally C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋