jealousy problem?

Question

can someone help me
i'm the really jealousy type
and i really need some help
i let my bf have his space but i freak when he has other girls
at his house
i know that they're just friends but my brain won't
help anyone?

Answer 1

I feel your pain. Going through the same thing. if you have had this problem not with just this boyfriend, then you may want to seek professional help before it "snowballs". Jelousy has lots to do with low self esteem. I'm wodering why you gave your boyfriend space in the first place? Was it his idea or did you volunteer that decision? If you need to talk to someone, you can im me.

Answer 2

I think in ur case good understanding between both of u is must. Ya I do agry with you its a matter of jealousy even if my girlfriend talk to someother guy me too feel jealous but the main thing is understanding I have great faith in my girlfriend which keeps me thinking positive. Any way good luck!

Answer 3

Honey, until you can learn to trust, you will never have a successful relationship. What are you jealous of? Do you truly believe he is cheating? If not, then don't worry about it. Trust him. And trust yourself! You are terrific! Why would he give you up? Just relax and quit worrying about stuff you don't need to worry about and concentrate your efforts on something more useful. Good luck.

Answer 4

I have jealousy problem to when my boyfriend has girls just as friends . I looked on his cell phone and found a girl's phone number on it . I was upset and I sat down with him . And we talked . It turned out it was just a friend of his that we went to her birthday party. But all I can say is sit down with him and tell him how you feel about that . He'll listean to you .

Answer 5

Back off and let him hang out with friends, even if they are girls. The fact that you get jealous and think about those things might say that you don't trust him? I have no clue what I'm talking about, I don't know, ask Dr. Phil.

Answer 6

You are on a bad merry go round...only you can control your emotions, no one else. Don't say you can't, for if you can't, who can. YOU cause your own feelings, not someone else. The feelings are yours and yours alone. Until you can admit that, there is no help for you. Once you have learned that you create your own feelings, you are on the road to stopping the bad feelings and getting on with a good life. Best to you.

Answer 7

GIRL, get over it. He is not a possession, and he doesn't come with a pink slip. If you don't trust him now you never will. Every time you get a negative thought in your head, stop it, tell yourself everything is okay. Or you will never have a solid relationship with anyone. If you don't trust him, he will give you a reason for not trusting him. Get over it.

Answer 8

If the girls are prettier or smarter or more appealing to your boyfriend than you are, they it's alright to be a little jealous. If they seem like no threat to you, then trust your boyfriend and calm down.

Answer 9

you need to know that you will meet many people in your lifetime and you have no control over anyone but yourself. so what if he has other friends who are girls?...all of you are looking anyway and no one is married...so relax and enjoy his company while you can and develop into your own interesting person by pursing other interests besides your boyfriends friends.

Answer 10

I would be jealous to... sorry i'm not much help. how is your relationship are you just you and him or are you dating others? if you are dating others then drop him off if it really bothers you.. if you are not dating others then talk to him about it and if it continues to be a problem and he is still seeing the other girls then drop him.