can someone help me
i'm the really jealousy type
and i really need some help
i let my bf have his space but i freak when he has other girls
at his house
i know that they're just friends but my brain won't
help anyone?
2006-08-10 17:03:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal to be jealous. It's nice to know that a woman can admit she's the jealous type. It shows you're an honest person. If you trust your b/f enough to let him have space, then trust him enough to know he only wants you. If he's not doing anything with those girls then it's ok to have friends that are female. If you're so jealous and make it known that could cause a problem with your relationship. As long as he's being good you have no reason to be real jealous. Don't take this the wrong way but it sounds like you're a little insecure. I'm the same way with my man. I look at it like this. My man comes home to me so I have no reason to be jealous of the girls he works with as long as he's not touching them.
2006-08-10 17:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by babegirll23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is the jealous type. We have been so close to breaking up over it, but we try to work out our problems. Lately, he has been realizing how close he is to loosing me, and has stopped. You need to think about what your doing, get some security and higher self esteem, and think about what you dont want to loose.
2006-08-10 17:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it is hard. im doing the same thing right now to. u just got to get over the fact that u r not together right now and he does have friends that are girls. but don't mean that they are doing any thing. and did u ever think that he could be tryig to make u jealouse by having the girls over knowing it would make u mad.
2006-08-10 17:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by baby_blue_blonde87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your boyfriend you don't trust or his friends? Perhaps if you hung out with your boyfriend while he hung out with his female friends you wouldn't be as worried. He shouldn't have a problem having his woman hang out with his friends (male or female).
Also, I wonder if your jealous because you don't trust yourself entirely and thereby project any desires for intimacy with someone else onto your boyfriend?
2006-08-10 17:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
W-Winers
O-Over Emotional
M-Money Hungrey
A-Angry all the time
E-Envious
N-Naggers
M-Messy
A-A$#-H^#s
E-Egotistic
N-Nonchallant
You see women have more issues than men. Thats why its easier for men to move on in relationships or to brush things off
2006-08-10 17:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the friends who are girls shouldn't be at his house,
I don't care whether they are only friends or not. If you
are his girlfriend and it bothers you, you should tell him,
he needs to respect your feelings. I'm not saying he shouldn't have friends, but to a point.
2006-08-10 17:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by frustrated 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy comes from insecurity.
You should get therapy, it would help find out what you are insecure about.
2006-08-10 17:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will disagree with me, but I think he should understand your sensitivity to this, and stop having girls over. You'll relax once you see that he cares enough about you to do that, then you won't be so jealous.
2006-08-10 17:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the green eyed monster is a dangerous critter to let run your life.. it can and will run off and alienate you from all who love you or did love you... jealousy is a power play and has NOTHING to do with love...... think about that !!!!! God bless
2006-08-10 17:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, relax a little, if the girls keep going over almost every day, be worried. In fact, go kick his a**!
2006-08-10 17:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋