4 months ago i cheated on my g/f when i was high..sense then we have worked it out and i would NEVER do that to ANYBODY ever again..its one of the biggest mistakes of my life..but i just read a thing with a bunch of people saying "once a cheater always a cheater."..whats your opinion on this..because im not.
2006-08-10 17:01:38 · 26 answers · asked by anarchy4ever91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MISTAKES are what they are. Sometimes you repeat them and sometimes you wont.
Change is hard, but amazing to accomplish. Good for you.
2006-08-10 17:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by What gives? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you believe you don't fall in the category of "once a cheater, always a cheater", why are you so concerned about what other people think? But you asked so here's my two cents: There are people who have cheated and learned how hurtful their behavior was, and there are others who have cheated....and then cheat again when the opportunity presents itself. I think that if someone has cheated in a relationship, there is a strong possibility that they will cheat again. Sorry. I call em like I see em.
2006-08-10 17:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...coming from someone who has cheated...that statement is not true. Yes, I have cheated in the past...several times in fact...but I would never do it again. I believe the reasons for my mistakes were immaturity...lack of respect for myself and the person I was in the relationship with. But, overtime...I think I have grown out of that. So, no...I do not think once a cheater always a cheater. I believe people say that because they have been cheated on and they are really hurt...they are angry and they want to express it to the world.
2006-08-10 17:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You haven't done it again because the opportunity hasn't presented itself. A lot of cheating is due to poor impulse control and that doesn't just "go away" by itself. The only way a cheater redeems himself is to visit the reasons the affair happened and eliminate the root of the problem. Maybe not all cheat again, but a vast majority do.
2006-08-10 17:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's true.. once a cheater always a cheater. You might say you would never cheat again.. probably cus you just done it.. wait till you get high again or just bored..
2006-08-10 17:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it really depend on yourself, on how much u love her and your will power. PPl do change, it isnt fair to say once a cheater always a cheater. there are ppl who are honest their whole life and yet still cheat at the end of the day.
2006-08-10 17:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by sunnythots76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe everything you hear. They once once you hit someone you will keep hitting them. That's not true either. It depends on the person. If you cheated once and she forgave you that's all that matters. Don't do it again and you won't be put in that category of always being a cheater.
2006-08-10 17:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by babegirll23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anarchy=confusion Once a cheater always a cheater. You have been labeled.
2006-08-10 17:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's true, once a cheater always i cheater. i agree with the first lady at the top.
2006-08-10 17:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by es 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You would be the 1 out of 10.
2006-08-10 17:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've cheated on two of my boyfriends, and i wasn't on drugs, so i believe people can change if they find they right person. But under the influence of anything, you never know what could happen. My advice is just not to get high around girls.
2006-08-10 17:12:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋