I need help..??

Question

How do you tell your parents...???
How do i tell my mom and dad that i cant stand them anymore and that i feel unloved and unwanted by them, i miss my brother i knew he loved me and now i just feel completly unloved.

Answer 1

tell them you need to talk to them if they make the time they love you if they dont then that doesnt mean they dont love you it may just mean they are busy and probley work alot

Answer 2

Where is your brother? You left out that detail. I do not know why you feel the way you do. First of all, your feeling s seem to be very close to the surface at this time. Obvioulsy you are feeling some kind of loss, and are feeling very hurt. In a moment of peace, talk to your parents. Tell them calmly, how you feel. Explain why you feel this way. I am sure your parents love you. They do not want to see you hurt and feeling unloved or unwanted. It sounds like to me that there has been a lot of turmoil, and maybe lives have been stressful. Talk to them, I am sure that do not know how you feel. Give them a chance to explain. Remember just like they cannot read your mind, you can't read their minds either. Try to keep your emotions in check. Feelings are neither right or wrong, they just are. Hopefully you can resolve all of this with your parents. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone else as well, someone outside of the family circle. A teacher, a counselor, a minister, a friend's parent. Find someone you can trust, and let them help you. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 3

Write them a thoughtful, heartfelt letter pleaing your situation, and see how they react. I wouldn't suggest running away unless they're being abusive (although you should go to a social worker or the police if that's the case, and they'll take care of the rest).

If your parents are the super busy type that are always worried about making money and business deals, a letter to them may help them realize your feelings and situation.

Don't worry, you're not alone on this, lots of kids feel that sometimes they're parents don't care about them, but deep down I'm sure they do care for you; you just have to give them a nudge and reminder every now and then.

Make sure if you write a letter though, not to be too harsh or mean. Tell them you still love them, but you don't feel they care about you anymore, and that as their child, they should give you more care and attention. Otherwise you may grow up to be bitter and resentful of people in authority later on, and I'm sure they wouldn't want that to happen. Tell them that you're lost and need them to help guide you back on track.

I don't think any parent who really loves their children would ignore you if you write something like that.

Answer 4

It looks like there are a bunch of underlying factors here. 1) You say you can't stand them anymore. So that means you could stand them, what has changed? 2) Did your brother go to college? Move out? Can you still keep in contact with him? 3) If he has recently left, are you going through separation anxiety? Without all those facts to analyze I can not truly help you. Good luck.

Answer 5

Speak to them about how you feel. What happened to your brother? Are you able to talk with him? If you cant improve how you feel, or at least give some reason to WHY you feel as you do,
then perhaps you need to consult with a counselor.

Answer 6

Tell them about how you feel

Answer 7

Tell them you are going to run away, then really do it.

Answer 8

let them know how you feel

Answer 9

Just say it

Answer 10

it depends,what happened i your brother.