So I have had a girlfriend for the past week. and today she broke up with me cuz im "too nice" I asked her for another chance and she sed she needs some thinking time. wut do i do. She is the best thing thats ever happened to me.
2006-08-10 16:50:38 · 22 answers · asked by sonic_rules2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't crawl back to her, just leave it alone a bit, if she realizes she's made a mistake, she'll call you, if not, then you're not meant to be together.
2006-08-10 16:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok how old are you?? I dont see why a girl would break up with you for being "too nice" unless you were a push over and were reminding her too much of a friend or something. Anyways, a week is hardly enough time to realize that she's the best thing thats ever happened to you. Wait till your older and then you'll understand that these childish relationships are just that....childish.
2006-08-10 23:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone because they are "too nice" is the most lame excuse I have ever heard. She either has something going on in her life that she doesn't want to tell you about, or, she couldn't be straight about the real reason she wanted to break up. Either way, it doesn't sound as though she is ready for a relationship at the moment. If she said she needs time just be a good friend to her, maybe she'll tell you what's really going on.
2006-08-10 23:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her some space and time maybe all she is used to are guys who treat her like garbage and she is afraid to accept any better cause she thinkd she dont deserve any better.after she thinks about things and if she really loves you shell be back if not call her after a couple of weeks and talk to her ask her what she is afraid of and let her know she deserves better and that you are not going to treat her like the other guys because she doesnt deserve to be treated like that. trust me once you say these things to her she will think about it and she will come back and realize that you are right
2006-08-11 00:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, Ask her what exactly happened. Then move on if she is not interested, YOu will find someone who will love you and love the fact that your too nice. Good luck
2006-08-10 23:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
W-Winers
O-Over Emotional
M-Money Hungrey
A-Angry all the time
E-Emotional
N-Naggers
M-Messy
A-A$#-H^#s
E-Egotistic
N-Nonchallant
You seen women have more issues than men. Thats why its easier for men to move on in relationships or to brush things off
2006-08-10 23:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time to think things through, and don't rush or push her. If she thinks you're too nice, maybe you're doing too much for her and you need to give her some space.
2006-08-10 23:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says that you are too nice, then don't change. Just remember to be yourself. If she thinks that you were too nice, then its her problem!!! Would she have been happy if you were the other way around??? Take care.
2006-08-11 00:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's weird i like guys who are nice but i never heard of too nice. try acting a lil more rough. but if you don't wanna change tell her if she has any kind of feelings for you still. cause if she doesn't then don't bother changing. you sound like a gentleman. something we don't have enough of these days.
buena suerte (good luck)
PS. i luv ur christmas hat.
2006-08-10 23:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by loveyou:]<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may already have someone. Usually when we are over someone then it is done. Unless you woo us. By buying us flowers and candy. Enough to tell us you still love us. If she doesn't budge then move on.
2006-08-10 23:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, let her think, even though I can't see breaking up with a guy, because he's"too nice"
Destiny
2006-08-10 23:58:44 · answer #11 · answered by parentslittleprincess66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋