ive been dating this guy for 4 months.i'd miss him.i remember the good times we got.i keep thinking of him all the time.
2006-08-10 16:06:55 · 20 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said that he needs space.
2006-08-10 16:14:17 · update #1
only time will allow you to heal, plan get togethers with friends like going to the movies, the mall or a sleep over to distract you, but talking to a good friend about your feelings can help speed up the process, there is life after a breakup just take things day by day and allow yourself to heal...
2006-08-10 16:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my bf just broke up on monday I'm so sad and depressed I've done this before trust me hun it will get better I think of the good times too we where together 8months so its really hard on me I so totally feel ur pain I cant listen to the radio and the only thing that rally helps is jsut to wallow for a while. Eat alotta ice cream and take cold showers and get really dressed up and go out with ur friends and jsutlaugh and have a blast and just pray to God that the waiter is HOT to u can get some good eye candy. This is what I've been doing for the last couple of days and ots helping me alot.
I would really like to talk to you and get some tips from you nad I would love to help you even more Email me at my new email address its pinkbabyisforyou@yahoo.com
I hope to hear from u soon.
2006-08-10 23:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Joanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, i'm there with you
similar situation,
only in my case, he's not even into me at all and i'm aware of that
ok, it's gonna be painful for a while
you just have to take it
make sure you don't call him, email him, go to places that he usually hang out
and throw away all the stuff in your house that remind you of him
don't even talk to your friend how much you miss him, cause it's gonna make you miss him more---trust me on that
try to keep yourself busy, instead of surfing the web and asking questions about how to get over him, you should go out and hang out with your friend,
during the daytime, do you work
make sure you have youself occupied during the weekends, make plans with your friends, so you don't get lonely and think about him
most importantly, don't tell yourself that you can't get over him, cause you really can if you want to
wish you luck
ps: DO NOT GO FIND A NEW GUY RIGHT AWAY,rebound never works, seriously don't
the guy that i am obsessed wtih is my rebound
give yourself a grief period, it's really important to be alone for a while, don't jump into a new relationship at once, you are going to have mixed emotions about the old guy and the new guy
one last thing, don't take advice from someone who only leaves one line----they just want to get 2 points
I really wish you will get over him soon. I know how painful it is if you really like him.
2006-08-10 23:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am led to believe that yall brokup, well i think that you need closure because if it wasn't a nasty breakup you could sit and explain to each other why you broke up and why it would or would not be wise to get back together. If it was a nasty breakup then you should dwel on the fact that you don't need that drama and heart ache and see if you could find a group of close and trusted friends that oyou could bond with that could provide emotional support and physical support nin the form of their presance around you
2006-08-10 23:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Roselle E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating for 4 months and you miss him. Why? Where did he go?
2006-08-10 23:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him all the space he needs, ask him if its over for sure and if it is go find someone else. If he says he's not sure go find someone else. If he says he still wants you around, dump his *** and go find someone else. The I need space line is a copout to try and spare the feelings of the person you don't want to be with anymore.
2006-08-10 23:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy doing new things. Meet new people and hang out with friends a lot. In time things will be easier and you will think of him less. As soon as you let him go you will find someone else to take his place but you have to let him go in order to find closure.
2006-08-10 23:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to deal with it until one day you just get over him and that could be a long time from now or a short time
2006-08-10 23:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by shortygirl207 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second you get a new guy, you will forget all about him. Time is the best healer!
2006-08-10 23:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by sweetundina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date me and you'll forget ol whats his name
2006-08-10 23:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Binky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋