well my baby daddy doesnt help with his 3 week old baby but his friend offers what should i do i have feelings for both
2006-08-10 15:54:07 · 14 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would suggest that you do not consider this "friend" of your baby's daddy to be a true friend to him if he is making offers to you. A real friend to a man will not make a play for his baby's mama. If you love the father of your child, take him to court for some child support in case he does not return your feelings for him. Maybe the fact that parting with his money for his child will build some sort of a sense of responsibility in his mind for the child and for you. Stop acting on your feelings. You should have learned that lesson 9 months and 3 weeks ago.
2006-08-10 16:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say go for the friend. I just had a baby 5 months ago and was in the same place you are except my baby's daddy helped out. I went after the friend though and ended up getting hurt but in your situation I think it would be for the best. Considering he is willing to raise a child that isn't even his.
2006-08-10 22:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a problem...that could be solved by not sleepin with a dude, getting knocked up then sleepin with his friend. If you had any self-respect you wouldn't be lured from a decent and wonderful guy who would be the father of your child, but you chose the idiot who has not responsibility. Sucks when you don't know how to choose a good future for you child huh?
2006-08-10 22:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i was in the same situation i was the guy who helped out when she needed it i kept her sane her baby was 7 months when we started up romantically and that lasted 2 months it was great while it lasted but then she decided to give him another chance and told him about us i lost two friends that day and i regret it.
2006-08-10 23:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sup wit my baby daddy?
2006-08-10 23:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by backroadhome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your situation and my babys dad wasnt helping me and i wasnt married to him and his friend wanted to help me i would atleast see if the dad was interested in me still. after finding out his response i would be with the friend. dads arent cracked up to be what they should. atleast my babys dad aint. i am raising her on my own so i would go for the friend.
2006-08-10 23:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by mldwild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cuz the baby daddy ain't a real man don't give you the right to be a hoe and start messin with his friend.
2006-08-10 22:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let the father be the father and for yourself personally you should leave both of them alone. After just 3 weeks...that's just nasty.
2006-08-10 23:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should just forget about both of them. You shouldn't come between the father of your child and his friend.
2006-08-10 22:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump the daddy n take da friend
2006-08-10 22:57:45 · answer #10 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋