SO confused?? what should i do?? please help, its a really tough situation??
shes 13 im 15..it only 2 years....and if u like them it dont matter....she was all over me...and i could tell she liked me......so i asked her out....she said idk maybe...well its been about a month now..and she's really backed off.......well anyways....her and her mom are really close...and she told her mom..that she likes me...more than a friend..but she wont date me becuz she is scared of us breakin up..and thinks that if we do...it will be really weird seeing each other and stuff...what should i do...what if she loses interest....and y would she have backed off....how much time should i give her...will she come back around?? .what should i do..i like her so much..and trust me ...ive liked many girls...but none like her..i wanna be there for her....i want her to cry on my shoulder..what do i do to get her back...without "scaring" her??
2006-08-10 15:52:18 · 6 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not scared of you. She's scared of commitment. At 13, maybe she's not ready to be in a relationship yet. Why don't you just be her friend for now. This seems like what she's most comfortable with. It'll take time, and when the time is ready for you and her to be more then friends, then she'll accept your offer to become her boyfriend. Don't rush things, you guys are still really young. Good luck with everything :D
2006-08-10 16:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by obs3ssive beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, you are fifteen this is gonna happen to you a lot unfortunately. It's part of growing up and I'm sorry, I'm 30 and still feel confused as hell sometimes about women. The best thing you can do is live your life the way you want to and stop worrying about this stuff. Let her know how you feel if you want and then back right off. That's what I'd do.
2006-08-10 16:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fins a time to talk to her. If you know whats the prob, just assured her. gals just need the assurance from guys but guys just don kno it! Love her dote on her.
2006-08-10 16:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by chyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww... ; ] so sweet
anyways why do you want her to back off just cuz of the age differnce i meani thoght oyu liked her i say go for it if you erally feel that way about her who cares waht people think about y'all
2006-08-11 18:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by Je t'aime ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend and let her develop some trust. Don't push her into anything.
2006-08-10 15:57:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one
2006-08-10 15:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋