2006-08-10 15:06:52 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way to get a person to like or love you. You must be yourself. Don't try to be something else so you attract him, otherwise you are always acting and not yourself. It will either happen or it won't. That is part of life and part of growing up.
2006-08-10 15:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're both so young, this isn't complicated at all. All you can do is be good friends, so hang out together, go shopping and see movies. What else is there for kids to do, right? Study together. You know, kid stuff. Don't do anything that will screw up your life or either of your families lives. Remember, anything you do that is questionable, will be told and revealed to all. Young guys tell their friends everything, and make up some stuff too. So don't do anything you don't want to hear about the next day and long, long thereafter. Reputation will follow you, so keep a good one.
2006-08-10 15:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by snickers_ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you are way too young for any guys, no matter what the age. You should be focused on school work and your family life at home. Spend all the time you can with them, because one day you will look back and wish you had. I think that you should also talk to your parents about your feelings because they would want to know what is going on with you. They can also give you some valuable advice.
2006-08-10 15:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by greattobeyoung 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no doubt you need to focus on school because you are way to young now, but i don't think its a crime to fall in love at any age. it is possible. sadly, i have to tell you that puppy love doesn't last. i started at 15, and it ended 6 months later. i wouldn't advice you hurting yourself with breakups, that's what i have learnt. if you want to get him to like you, you have to let him know you better too,. but most importantly, be yourself ! don't change because of him. or you could tell him directly and see if you two could work things out ! i hope my 2 cents worth helped and i wish you all the best in both your studies and love life (:
2006-08-10 15:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by missjolintan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself around him. If he can't like you for who you really are, than screw him! If you have to do crazy outrageous things (that you wouldn't normally do) to get his attention, than don't waste your time. Spend time around him and get to know him, and make sure he gets to know you, too. And never tell him you like-him-like-him until you're sure he feels the same way.
Getting a guy is always a long and hard process, and I hope you're patient enough for it. Guys can be a bit slow sometimes when it comes to girls! ;)
Good luck!
2006-08-10 15:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 14 we don't tend to be that picky (I'm 17, so I know). He's not going to embarass you if you flirt with him or ask him out, that only happens in movies. Even when I tell a girl no I'm always really nice about it and want to be their friends, so don't be scared to. It's hard to trust a perfect stranger about this, but guys like being flirted with, it DOESN'T MATTER WHO. It strokes our ego, trust me.
Maybe just compliment him, or just flat out ask him to go somewhere (movies, etc.) with you. He won't shut you down, like I said that only happens in movies, I can't think of one time that happened in my school. Just flirt, we like it.
2006-08-10 15:41:23 · answer #6 · answered by doty_soty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm 56 so...it's been a while. I like candid women, girls when your age. I would have loved it if a girl I liked told me she did in fact. As in, "you know I like you, lets go to a movie, whatever, study hall, talk?" My Mom drove me and my first date to Disneyland, to a dance, and my sister picked us up afterward. We became good friends, this girl & I. Then I moved to another city. I liked it that she said she was interested in me, and wondered if she knew I was interested in her too, and it ended up that I later asked her out. I was 14...
2006-08-10 15:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by Hale F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being you! Find something that you both enjoy and maybe team up with some other friends too. Keep it light, but friendly. You are a unique human being... enjoy!!
2006-08-10 15:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by karen95492 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you like him and maybe he might like you and it just may work out between you all. I know I am 13 too. Don't lie to him about your age to get him to like you either because i did that once and then he found out my real age and he dumped me.
2006-08-10 15:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by kdbug2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not make anyone like you unless you cast a spell on them or something. I know a couple if you would like them .
2006-08-10 15:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋