and what does it mean if you make your ex jealous by talking to other girls. and if you were cheating, would you tell her about the girls?
2006-08-10 15:06:44 · 34 answers · asked by vinnie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could you make your answers more specific, please and thank you
2006-08-10 15:12:29 · update #1
would you tell your ex bout the girls?
2006-08-10 15:16:11 · update #2
Simply, I wouldn't make her jealous...because that would only hurt her feelings [if it makes her want me more...well....i still wouldn't do it]. My ex got jealous when I started dating my current girlfriend [im in a wonderful relationship right now] but that's not really my problem because I lost all feelings for her. I would NOT cheat, i'm totally against that.
2006-08-10 15:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by TriNStylZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I would, just for fun. A little jealousy does not hurt a relationship. If your ex gets jealous by you talking to other girls, that means a few things.... It could be that she still likes you. Or she is the possessive type and feels that you are her private property. ( Yes, there are girls like this out there. I met a few. ) I have never cheated on a girl with another woman. If I did, I WILL NOT tell my ex. That is just extra ammunition for your ex to potentially make your life miserable. Please note that I do not advocate cheating on your current relationship. If the relationship warrants cheating, then it would be better to end that relationship.
2006-08-10 15:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be a point to this, because you're obviously monitoring...
If she's his ex, he is perfectly entitled to be talking with other girls. He's back in the hunt, after all. If this makes her jealous, then she needs to analyze what is wrong with her mindset to cause her to be that way.
No guy should tell his girl about others. It's a good way to end a good relationship, and a good way to end up dead in a bad one
2006-08-10 15:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't make the girl jealous. If you ask me, there is no reason to make her jealous if you don't know that she likes you. Simple as that. Well, I wouldn't date more than one girl at a time. I don't like it when people cheat and I don't know why they do. They always get caught.
2006-08-10 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by first_baseman2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not make her jealous. What is the point of that? It's stupid. If I liked a girl I wouldn't be cheating either. That's even more stupid.
2006-08-10 15:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL, MAKING AN EX GIRLFRIEND JEALOUS IS VERY IMMATURE AND TOO PREDICTABLE. SO NO, I WOULDN'T RECOMMEND TAKING THAT ROUTE BECAUSE YOU COULD BE JEOPARDIZING ANY CHANCE (IF THERE IS ANY) OF YOU GETTING BACK TOGETHER IN THE FUTURE...BY BEING STUPID. #2 WHAT DIFFERENCE WOULD IT MAKE IF YOU TELL HER ABOUT THE GIRLS YOU'RE CHEATING WITH? IS IT GOING TO MAKE HER LOVE YOU MORE BECAUSE YOU WERE HONEST, OR HATE YOU BECAUSE YOU AGAIN ARE BEING STUPID AND PREDICTABLE BY TRYING TO MAKE HER JEALOUS.
2006-08-10 15:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way I wouldn't make her jealous is when nobody is visiting her. But if I am in a very awfull situaiton could make her jealous. To show that love conquers everything.
2006-08-10 15:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by problemsolver86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, if I LIKED a girl, why exactly would I want to make her jealous??? I mean, why not just talk to her and try and get to know her. Maybe after she gets to know me, she'll like me. If she doesn't, I won't try and make her jealous, I'll move on to someone else! Seems kinda silly to hang out, make her jealous in hopes that it'll in turn make her like me?!? Isn't there a chance that there is someone else who might be more suited for me, that I don't have to try as hard to get to like me???
Maybe its just me....
2006-08-10 15:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making people you're supposed to care about jealous is childish. If you care for someone you don't want to cause them to hurt. When you cheat it means you really don't care.....and when the trust is broken there's nothing there anymore anyway.
2006-08-10 15:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not a nice thing to do to someone. If you like a girl, you should show positive emotions, not try to evoke negative ones. That is very immature.
2006-08-10 15:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by szydkids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋