My experiences with women are that they are inconsistant. First af all, you seem to have a good time and then they vanish. Is this a dream I ask myself or did I do something wrong? I have had women (some I know for awhile, some I don't) decide to vanish on me, stop calling me back, and decide not to e-mail me back either. I think that it is terriable that they can't speak their mind to men, and just dodge everything. Girls have you done this before and guys have this ever happened to you before? Do any of you know why it happens? Im talking about friends, someone you dated or even g/f's.
2006-08-10 15:06:26 · 21 answers · asked by james w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes women meet a guy and like him at first, but for whatever reason (mostly something the guy does/says, etc) they just change their minds. It doesn't mean necessarily that there is anything wrong with you. You just may not be their type. However it does mean they decided at some point they do not want to be in a relationship with you. Don't take it personally, you may have to go through a lot of dates to find the one you end up spending the rest of your life with.
2006-08-10 15:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 19:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily the guy's fault (so to speak) in every situation. The girl. Maybe she needs to work on her ability to trust that she will/ can have a healthy relationship. Or maybe she has a lack of confidence. Confidence can screw up a guy's chances too. Don't judge, but stay open, one might pop back up in your future. I think all the other answers given are good too.
2006-08-10 15:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is kinder to pretend to have a good time, then hope the guy will go away. If they vanish, take that as a hint that you, not they, are doing something wrong. Maybe they are dodging you because you are stalking them. Stop it.
2006-08-10 15:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have cause i didn't want to hurt the guys feelings and he was especially clingy!!! Examine your own behavior. Are you boring them to death? Are you stepping beyond your own boundaries into their's which they are not ready to share? Can you be trusted? Do you put any effort in keeping things interesting? Something is wrong here cause a woman will usually hold onto a good thing. Why don't you call one of them up and ask...honestly...for future reference exactly what you should change about your strategy of dating. Good Luck.
2006-08-10 15:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they are just trying to spare your feelings. For whatever reason, they don't seem to be able to be up front with you. Have you tried calling them? Are you stalking them or something? Do you have BO you don't realize? Do you drink too much? Take a serious objective look at the impression you are making and your physical appearance and try again.
2006-08-10 15:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by shomechely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well First of all I saw ur question and we tend to dissapear because we're scared of what u might think about us. Maybe a look that u guys give us girls might just concern us and we feel a little ashamed and we leave, But sometimes we just like Guys not beg us girls but to look for us it makes it more fun!!!!!
2006-08-10 15:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by SexySylvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all women are like that. if i have an issue i just speak my mind its stupid to play games but i have had a guy who wouldnt leave me alone and wasnt able to be nice had ro change my number and all called 47 times in one afternoon
2006-08-10 15:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you've just had a lot of flaky women in your life. This isn't something I hear of my friends doing or something that I will do. You've just met a lot of flaky women or maybe you scare them or something along those lines where they don't want to confront you with the news of wanting distance. And I don't mean 'scare' in such a way that I mean to offend you. I say scare as in: Maybe you intimidate them. Maybe they don't want to disappoint you. Or maybe you just scare the hell out of them. Who knows?
2006-08-10 15:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you. Maybe you are too nice because a lot of us women don't know what we have until its gone. Don't worry you will find someone that will stick around. Good luck.
2006-08-10 15:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋