If you ever have a first love or had and maybe still have, what was it like for you? and if you did have one but lost him/her, would you leave whoever you are with now to be with them if they said they would be with you?
2006-08-10 15:06:09 · 31 answers · asked by MooOooo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohh wow I actually had just posted a question about my first Love .... He did return after 4 Long years playing sports accross the country .... OnlY to Leave again possibly for another year to teach abroad..... ISNT LIFE IRONIC?
He was my first boyfriend, my first everything and the only person I ever Said the three magical words to. I LOVED HIM.
WHy ? Because I had never experienced THAT kind of Love, yeah i mean my parents , my sister , my family and my friends LOVED me, But HIS love was different. It was new and exciting.
He spoiled me so much for anyone else in my life because he was so loving , caring , sweet , genuine, intelligent , articulate, and honest. IT WAS honest, innocent LOVE... that kinda of innocence gets lost in relationships when you get older.....
But back then, we were so young and in LOVE and the only two people that mattered were us two....
There was No need to worry abour finacnial security, no school or work stress, No NEED to find oneself or search for the deeper meanings and purposes in life etc blablablablbalblablab
NOTHING Else ... it was just me and him against the world ....
Being Loved by him made me the person that I am today .... literallly on almost every aspect of my Life ....
Would i get back with him if he wanted me ? In a split second !!! ... bUT HE doesnt want me .... Because HE NEEDS to FIND HIMSELF .....
Ufffff whatever .... i rather just have him tell me that he is not in Love with me anymore .....
First LOVES are sooooooooooooo bittersweet
2006-08-11 19:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Armenianchick1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were 19, and he was my heart and I loved him. We were together for about 2 months before he got into some kind of trouble and he had to leave, and I missed him when he was gone. But I found him 5 years later and I never knew that he loved me back I thought that he just liked me nothing more. He was locked-up in state prison. We wrote each other every week for 5 months, then after that he would call. I still think about him sometimes, wondering what it would be like if I'd kept in contact.
2006-08-10 15:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by robinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh...I haven't thought about this in a while. I've been forcing myself not to.
My first love's name was Matt Black. He was amazing; he was everything I've ever wanted and needed from a guy. He was so funny, he always made me laugh, and he was so full of life; so happy, so caring. He was so gorgeous that looking at him made my eyes hurt. He was my best friend, my confidant, my soul mate. We made funny nicknames for each other and shared ice cream cones and secrets. My time with him was perfect.
....And then came Bethany.
She told us lies. She drove us apart. She him that I was cheating on him and told me that he was being unfaithful, too. We started arguing over it, and finally, Bethany got the best of us, and be broke up. We damaged our friendship and each others' hearts.
Yes, I lost him. We're still good friends, but it's never been the same since we broke up. I still love him so, so much. If he told me right now, right this second, that he wanted to take me back, that he wanted to be with me forever, I would say yes and jump into his arms and ride off into a California sunset with him. But I doubt that will ever happen.
Woah, that felt good...I don't think I've ever told anyone exactly how I felt about him before. That was awesome!
2006-08-10 15:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still remember my first love. Wow he was gorgeous. That was back when I was 14. Now I am 40 and seen him 6 years ago and he still is very handsome. Would I leave the man I am with now for my first love. Absolutely NOT. My Boo is the sweetest man I have ever met. He makes me laugh, makes me feel sexy and most of all we play very well together.
2006-08-10 15:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first love was a boy I dated in middle school. He moved away right before high school. I still think of him from time to time and wonder where he is and what he's doing. He came back for me after high school when he was getting ready to leave for the military but I had a fiancee and I didnt go with him. I wonder about my decision and if I made the right one but that is something I will never know. If he came back today....????
2006-08-10 15:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my first true love at 22 and I thought that he was the best guy ever. Needless to say it didn't last. We were on and off for years but the last time I saw him I told him that I couldn't keep going back and forth with him because it was breaking my heart over and over again. Now if he were to come back and ask me to take him back I would say no because I am over it. I still love him and always will but not enough to give him another chance.
2006-08-10 15:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! My first love I am still absolutly in love with even though we are not together at this time it was 12 years ago but seems like yesterday! I would leave anyone for him!! He makes me feel at peace. It is the most amazing feeling in the world when I am with him! In fact I am going through a situation with him right now he kind of left state for his job and stopped by to say goodbye to me and he said it was for good and suddenly last night I get to hear his beautiful voice again! mmmm it makes me feel so good to think of him!
2006-08-10 15:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my first love when I was 19 and he was 26. He thought I was too young although he did love me. I am not with anyone now but if he asked I would give up my whole life and career to be with him. He lives a half a state away from me and I would go to him in a heartbeat. Not only was he my first love, he was my soulmate. Don't believe it when people tell you that soulmate's always work out. Its simply not true.
2006-08-10 15:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by dleeldy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first love was great but like any relationship we had our ups and downs and sometimes i think about him but i think i like him more as a memory. But the man i with right now is greater and i would never leave him for someone from my past cause its pointless if i were meant to be with someone from my past we still would of been together right now. Plus going back with him is setting myself up to get hurt. Dont ever go for someone thats sez that they want to be u thats when u start to ask ? not to them but to ur self do u want to put up with maybe gettin hurt again?. Plus it makes u look a certain way cause u leaveing some one for them u look vulnerable and patetic and remember what goes around comes around 10 times harder trust me it dose.
2006-08-10 15:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl was my first love, we were best friend in the bedroom and out the bedroom. But when I travel to different country I dream about her all the time. But only to return and found out that she was cheating on me with different men. But I still use to love her and I still have that love for her but the only reason something she behave that she doesn't appreciate my friendship. Even though I am with nobody now, I still have space for her in my heart.
2006-08-10 15:23:44 · answer #10 · answered by problemsolver86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋