She asks "if you could, which of my friends would you sleep with?" This is a question full of landmines. Why does she ask and how should I answer.
2006-08-10 15:05:14 · 34 answers · asked by success_2_be 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants to know which of her friends you think is hott. If you tell her she will
1. Hate that girl with jealousy
2. Will always see if you are checking that chick out
3. You're in trouble if you actually answer the question
4. You should say "Honey, you are the only one I love"
5. She's up to something...
2006-08-10 15:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um well that question is silly to ask in the first place because no matter what you say for the most part, she will get pissed off. If you answered no one she will turn it around and give you the third degree that you dont like her friends and if you answer someone then she might bring it up one day that you are attracted to them so its a no win situation. Maybe u can ask her why she is asking this question and the reason she feels the need to ask this. Maybe the reason she is asking is because she doesnt feel very secure or she doesnt feel very attractive to you and thats where you come in and make her feel that she is the hottest thing since cinna-buns. But for the most part thats a question you just shouldnt ask your spouse. Its serves really no purpose and its only basically to get pissed off or upset at the other. So I definitely wouldnt answer that...
2006-08-10 15:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by dlite1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahah.. I'm not a woman. But at least I'm a girl. So I know when a woman ask questions like that, it means she has da feeling or hear from somewhere that u're interested in another girl (maybe her friend).
It's da way she wanna testify da rumour (or her feeling).
If u dont have another girl, simply say u arent interested in any girl except her. So u wouldnt sleep wit anyone even though u could have a chance. That's the answer she's waiting for...
But if u have another girl, yea, she knows that,.. so it's time to commit it and end ur relationship. Dun hurt her anymore!!!
2006-08-10 15:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to end a lifetime of these games is to shut it down early in the relationship. Not all women are like this. There are too many men who fall into the trap of slowly becoming self-castrated eunuchs who are affraid to say what they mean to their significant others as the relationship progresses. In this case since you know she is just playing games, simply pick her out hottest friend (preferably the one she likes the least) and say,” “If you weren’t in my life I would definitely make a move on her. Who wouldn’t? She’s gorgeous. Any more questions?” Repeating this process for “trap” questions until the games or the relationship end. Either way you come out a winner.
2015-02-26 06:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by frank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause we as woman all know that men lie constantly and if we tricked them then that means we got them to tell the truth. Besides, that really isn't a trick question because you know damn well what she wants you to say.
2006-08-10 15:41:56 · answer #5 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, i hate when girls do this!!! It's like trying to find an excuse to geth their boyfriends in trouble. If i were you, I would answer with one girl and say "well, if I had to chose, I guess Amanda because she is genuinely nice, it's really hard though, because none of your friends are as amazing or pretty or nice as you. Just thinking about that makes me so appreciative to have you." Honestly, if you answer her questions like that, I'm sure they will end soon because she is getting you to answer them just as she would want and she probably feels like she doesnt need to test you anymore. Good luck!!!
2006-08-10 15:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by katie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think those questions are funny to ask. But some women want to trap you. But none the less you should be honest and ask her the same question.
To level the playing field...
2006-08-10 15:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by cheeeeeezymouse25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when they do stuff like that,lol. U don't answer, smile, shake your head and walk away. U can have no right answer 4 such a question, no win situation........that is unless she means it as a offer of some kind,lol. Then u might be in a win situation.
2006-08-10 15:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by juslookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women ask trick questions to see if you'll answer them right. as the "which friend would you sleep with" what she wants you to say is no one. and then you ask her the same question back.
2006-08-10 15:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by wrestling diva!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's testing you. She is testing your sense of boundaries,self-control, and sensitivity. Say "None of them because I only want you." If you tell her you would sleep with one of her friends she is probably going to get mad. Women are tricky creatures who are sensitive and as a man you need to understand that by being sensitive to her makes her feel loved and secure with you.When asked that question never give her an answer as to who it would be. PLEASE DON'T!
Good Luck!!
2006-08-10 15:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by KAI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋