My newly ex-boyfriend was and is addicted to crack cocaine. He would try to find anyway possible to get it. I loved and cared about him so much but finally had to start to think about myself. He has called me in the middle of the night when we were going out to tell me he was in trouble, or that he was going to kill himself or rob the turkey hill. I often suspected he was lying to me about were he was going or had been. The night he was not home when i got off work and was still not home when i woke up at 7am i got very worried. I called his mom and she tried to find were he was. The next day i removed all my things from the appt. and left a note saying good-bye. It has only been 1 day and I already miss him dearly.
2006-08-10 15:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My newly ex-boyfriend was and is addicted to crack cocaine. He would try to find anyway possible to get it. I loved and cared about him so much but finally had to start to think about myself. He has called me in the middle of the night when we were going out to tell me he was in trouble, or that he was going to kill himself or rob the turkey hill. I often suspected he was lying to me about were he was going or had been. The night he was not home when i got off work and was still not home when i woke up at 7am i got very worried. I called his mom and she tried to find were he was. The next day i removed all my things from the appt. and left a note saying good-bye. It has only been 1 day and I already miss him dearly. We even talked about getting married and having kids in the near future. I thought he could have been "The One"
2006-08-10 15:21:23 · update #1
Why would you want to be around someone like that ?Go find someone that you would want to have children with someday.
2006-08-10 15:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did by saying good bye was the right thing to do. What you are feeling now is normal but you need to stay strong and think of why you left in the first place. The feelings you have now are romantic but unrealistic. Because you thought he was "the one" it is hard to stop thinking that way overnight, but eventually, if you stay away from him, you will find someone worthy of you and look back at this time of your life like it was a bad dream. By staying with him or taking him back you could destroy your own life. Please don't.
2006-08-10 15:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get confused about missing him out of love compared to missing him out of pity. You did the right thing. Let his parents figure out a way to help him. Don't get sucked in. You have decided that you can lead a better life having to worry about drugs.
2006-08-10 15:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's addicted to cocaine. think about what kind of long term relationship that would have been. i know you care about him, but did you really want to live the rest of your life and marry a crack addict? you are better than that and you deserve more than that.
surround yourself with friends and hobbies. it'll take time to realize it was for the best.
2006-08-10 15:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You deserve a better man than that he is a crackhead and you and your future children deserve a better man in your life than a crackhead don't you think? You don't need him!
2006-08-10 15:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by chrissiewild79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do u get over him?-remind yourself that he is addicted to crack & that he has only been thinking of himself-he needs to hit rock bottom b4 he realizes what he's done & sometimes rock bottom doesn't even help-put yourself 1st not him
2006-08-10 15:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there - RUN - and don't look back.
Not worth it.
One day when you do leave it all behind you will wish you did it sooner.
He could give a crap about you (and himself !!) so move on.
2006-08-10 15:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Windseeker_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a new man. there is so much more better out there. everyone thinks that someone can be "the one." if he is, then he would stop doing drugs for you.
2006-08-10 15:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by wrestling diva!!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
forget that crackhead and move on....what the hell are u really missing by not being with him?
2006-08-10 15:20:12 · answer #9 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to get over?
there's more to life than sex.
2006-08-10 15:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by bobo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋